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Adoptive parents profile
Dear Birthmother,
Our names are [taken out for their privacy]. We want to sincerely thank you for choosing to read our letter. We hope that God has given you peace about your decision of life and adoption for your little one. For us, your choice is truly a blessing, an answered prayer for a child.
From the beginning of our relationship we have always openly talked about having children. We talked about adopting to further grow our family after having biological children. After trying for years, we found out that our chances of getting pregnant were close to none. After [the adoptive mom] had a hysterectomy, we knew that adoption was the path that God had chosen for us.
We met 8 years ago, while in college. We became engaged in July 2003 and were married in June 2004 in a small church where we have remained and have become members. We enjoy being part of such an uplifting community. [the adoptive mother] is involved in the children ministry (nursery, Sunday school, vacation bible school) and [the adoptive father] is involved with various committees that keep our church running smoothly. We have been blessed with those we have become close with, friends and mentors.
We bought our house in 2005. Shortly after moving in we adopted our little fuzzy one… our 3-year-old tabby cat named Baxter. We live in a wonderful neighborhood, where we are within walking distance to an elementary school, a community park with a new playground, and lots of bike paths.
We enjoy taking walks together. Going to the beach to swim and watch the sunset is a favorite summer past time. We like to go out to eat and try new restaurants, just as a couple and even with friends and family. We also enjoy taking vacations and getting out to enjoy nature.
[the adoptive father] was born in Maryland and his family moved to West Michigan to be closer to grandparents. He graduated from a Christian high school and earned his Bachelors of Science in Mechanical Engineering degree in 2001. He is currently a design engineer for a local company. He is the oldest of four siblings (2 brothers and a sister), two of which have married. [the adoptive father] enjoys reading, working around the house (both indoors and out), biking, and swimming. [the adoptive father] is 6'0" with blond hair and hazel eyes. He is laid-back and calm, but will definitely stand up for his principles and beliefs. [the adptive father] can be shy until he gets to know you. He is an amazing person, friend and husband. I know he will make a wonderful father too!
[the adoptive mother] was born in West Michigan and has continued to live in the area her whole life. She graduated from a public high school and earned her Bachelor of Science degree in 2003. She currently works part-time for a local doctors’ office. She is the eldest of two, having a brother who is married and has a young daughter. [the adoptive mother] enjoys reading, scrapbooking, photography, knitting/crocheting, and she has even begun to take on quilting. She also enjoys outdoor activities like gardening, biking, and swimming. [the adoptive mother] is 5’3” with red hair and blue eyes. [the adoptive mother] is out going and talkative and she is the one who organizes and plans everything for our little family. She is bubbly, creative, and affectionate, and loves children of all ages, playing the “aunt” to a number of kids whether they are related or not. Having our own child is something she has been excitedly waiting for since shortly after we were married.
Family is very important to us. We are close to both sides and find ourselves over at either parents’ homes almost every Sunday afternoon. We continue to try hard and stay connected to our siblings, even though many have married and moved away. Both of our families are excited that we have chosen adoption and are anxiously awaiting the newest member to our family.
Thank you for considering us and taking the time to read about our family and us. We are happy to know that we can start and grow a family through this process though we can have no children of our own. We hope that God’s peace follows you with whatever decisions you make.
Sincerely,
[the adoptive parents]
Why I chose this profile.
There are a number of reasons why I am interested in this adoptive family.
1. I was looking for an adoption family that didn't have any children already.
I wanted a family that couldn't have any children, and would feel the happiness with me when I go to have the baby.
2. They have been together and married for a long time, and own their own home. Stability was one of the most important things I was looking for in an adoptive family, and I think they have it.
3. They have a cat, and I was looking for an adoptive family that loves animals. Having the cat kind of says to me that they are nurturing people.
4. They are active, and I would want the baby to grow up to be an active person also. To me, it makes me think the family is driven in life.
5. The fact that the father is shy and quiet, but will stand up for his beliefs and principles makes me feel better to know that the baby could grow up to be like that. I grew up in a loud, over talking family, and most of the time it wasn't a good thing since everyone wanted to be heard and talk at once, and so other people wern't able to express their opinions.
6. The adoptive father has a really good job, and one that I think he will get laid off from anytime soon. I really liked the fact that the adoptive mother has a part time job, and so that means she will have some time to spend with the baby. My mom was a stay at home mom and it was always a nice feeling to know that she was there when we needed her.
7. I am an artsy person, and I think that the adoptive mom has a lot of hobbies that could benefit the baby. Being creative and outgoing is something that I'm looking for in the baby, and I wanted an adoptive family that could show him that side to life.
The adoptive father is also an active person, and I could see the baby being outside a lot with the adoptive family, doing different activities.
I guess I can see the adoptive father outside, teaching the baby to ride a bike without training wheels, or the adoptive mother outside gardening with the baby nearby on a blanket, chilling out in the fresh air.
8. They seem very family oriented, and it's great to hear that the family is looking foward to the adoption as much as the adoptive family.
Also, they said that they are over to their family's house almost every Sunday, and so it makes me feel good to know that the baby will be growing up in a loving enviroment.
I can't wait until Thursday, so I can get the ball rolling on possibly contacting the people and meeting them.
Thanks for visiting. |
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