You guys are either sick of my nearly daily up dates or you are excited but either way, this will be about Thursday and when I get home from the date tonight, you will have another one waiting to be read on Saturday.
First... the wake
My mom walked in with me but only waited in the hall till people from my work showed up and I'd go in with them. So I went in with a lady name Lisa. We walked over to the book and she signed us in and then we went in and sat down. Within a few minutes she realizes that there was a line so she asks me if I want to go through the line. so of course I say yes. We get to the family and there was a woman, I assume was her mother, and two guys who I assume to her the mother's fiancee and my coworker's fiancee. (they never introduced themself) They thanked us for coming, saying how much they appreciate it. I told the first guy that I worked with her. Lisa said she did too. which, was incorrect, she works for the company, Lisa never worked with her.
So then we go and sit down. I was just wanting to see my boss as I have not heard from her since the horible tragic insident, but I heard that she was not doing well and she had a lot of gilt. One of my other coworkers,came over and we shared a quick work. I waited and waited to hear my boss's voice or someone mention her.
After about hhmmmm ten minutes of waiting, I start thinking "I always just paid my respect to the family and left. what are we doing sitting here" (my mom was in the parking lot waiting for me.) More and more people showed up. There was a lot of people from the company. Lisa was telling me that there was a lot of flowers and beautiful pictures of Stephanie. (to which I was greatful for a moment that I couldnt see. I would defanately lose it if I saw them) and she said that there was a lot of people.
Lisa, started talking to others about work stuff and eventually she and a guy found out they were both going through a divorce so they talked about the process. (to which my thought was, these people are my age and they are talking about a divorce and I am going on a first date tomorrow? ug) Lisa was talking to another person about her cat. Other people were talking about work. I was thinking... why are we talking about work? we're at a funeral?
Lisa says to me (and it didnt click right away) she goes "did you work at my house when Izic was there?" I was thinking if I ever worked with an izic and I didnt so I said no. So later on she was talking abouut "her house" again and I laughed and for the first time in my life I realized-admitted "Lisa, I am sorry. I didnt know who you were till just know. but now I know who you are." When the day program I worked at for 4 years closed down in 2008, I was moved to a house where this lady was the house manager. I worked there for a month but she felt bad that she couldnt give me the supervision she felt she should have been giving me so she moved me to another house, the one I currently work at.
After a long time she said that she had to pick her daughter up so she was going to go, did I want to leave. I said yes. On the way out, I had said I wish my boss was there, I would have liked to have seen her. She said that she was and she was sorry that she didnt bring me over, did I want to go back in. I said yes, just for a quick moment. So she brought me back in, and lead me right to my boss. I have not seen her in a long time because she was on maturity leave and was supose to come back in the middle of February.
We shared a long hug without saying anything.
I never felt a hug like that before. I felt pain but also a sents of relief that I was finally hugging her and without words, I felt that it was saying that everything will be ok some how some way.
So we broke from the hug, she thanked me for coming over. She said "you were hiding on me, like you always do" (at work, I work upstairs of the house and her office is down stairs) I told her that we will get through this together. We said a few more words. We hugged again, she thanked me for coming over to her again and then said our byes.
Lisa walked me out and asked if I was glad we went back in. I said yes, thank you for bringing me back in.
Steffany Moulton, you maybe gone but you will never ever be forgotten.
A young angel sits on heaven's heighest hill and is looking down on us.
"Beyond the door
There's peace I'm sure.
And I know there'll be no more...
Tears in heaven
Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven
Will it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong, and carry on
Cause I know I don't belong
Here in heaven"
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Leigh: No strings Attached looks good.
As does How do You Know and Country Strong. So Sylvan Street sounds good? Cuz if you are thinking Jimmy;s thats fine too....I am not picky.
how was the game? I worked this morning but got out early due to low numbers.
I had to dig out this morning, i was getting so frushtrated cuz my car kept getting stuck. The landlord hadnt plowed yet.
Anyhow... ya tonight were the shows you were thinking of... sorry if i confused you when isaid i could talk during greys.............anyhow, latta gataa Report this
Jonathan:
I just got back from the wake.
I got to see my boss for the first time since the thing happened.
I hugged her for a minute without saying anything. We said a few words. She thanked me for coming over to her. We hugged again before I parted.
It's not easy.
No no no, Sylvan street is good. I went to the web page and checked out their menu. There are a few things I would eat there.
No strings attached sounds like a good movie.
It would start at 8:15 or 9;25 at the liberty tree mall.
So depending on your work schedule, we could either meet at 6pm and hopefully catch the 8;15 show or 7pm and and go for the 9;25 show.
Let me know your thoughts.
I shoveled a lot today. The walkway, including the 4ft of snow the stupid plow mannaged to push in front of the walkway. and the back portch. (dont think the portch was shoveled in the last few weeks)
latah Leigh
ps on the way home, "brown eyed girl" came on the radeo. I smiled.
Leigh: I am working to 5:30, so 6 would not work....7 might be better... thjere is also a theater called hollywood hits... which i think is what you looked at, Cuz I was looking it up... liberty tree mall didnt look like it was playing.
we might need a reservation...7 works. I might be a few minutes late, depending on traffic i might not be late at all........... i will have to go home frist to get cleaned up
the movies are like 5 minutes away.
I am sorry you had that wake to go ot. That sucks. But its great you went and supported them.
Brown eyed girl came on eh? good times
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So I was starting to type a response when I heard my phone ring. I went over and picked it up and... it was Leigh.
I told her that I was about to send you a response but I dont have to do that now. She said that she was going to write to me but figured she'd call me instead. (good sign, yes?)
We (and when I say we, 90-10 her) talked for about a half hour. I said "how was your day. I'm sure it was better than mine was." So she told me about shoveling her car out and how she was mad at her land lord for not doing it or not even helping out. She told me about work today and how there is a kid who is a bit slow and some of the other kids recognize it and they help him out but she says, actually they all help out each other. I love my kids.
(I think it is funny that she holds nother back from me. I think it is just her being her)
She told me how when she burps, she does it very quietly and noone notices. One of her friend's noticed once and said to "say excuse me" so she said " excuse me" So now sometimes when I say it, people think I want their attention. Then she talked about hipcupping. lol randomness to me. but she talked about that and how she gets them about once every two weeks. I was surprised and told her so because I dont remember the last time I got them.
She goes "well this one time" and I said "at band camp" we laugh and she goes in that ditzy tone "and this one time, at band camp" (I was waiting to see if she was going to say the entire thing lmao) She went back to her hipcupping story of a friend saying something that confused her, and the friend said "I dont know, but you dont have the hipcups any more" lol
We eventually, talked about Friday night.
She said that she would go home and take a quick shower, I mean, not that I dont take a shower in the morning, cause I do but just to freshen up. (so then we got into a conversation about timing of our showers, morning vs night. lol
Then she said that she will put make up on. I laughed. I said, that's the good thing about going out with me. You dont have to wear make up. But if it will make you feel pretty, go right ahead. she laughed.
She told me the last few times she went to this restaurant she got the lobster mac and cheese and it cost 18 dollars, it it expensive but so good but I will try something different. We talked about how how I must have looked up a different thearter. I told her I just put in the city name. so I am sure I was on the other movie thearter page.
hmm at some point she talked about a bf who took her to a restaurant that "I'm not sure if you heard of but it has kareoki." and she said the name and I know it quite well. She was telling me how she loves to sing. and that there was this older guy who was in his 50's who had a thing for her friend so he would buy drinks for them all the time. They never turned them down. free drinks, why not. She says that she gets texts at random times from guys asking her to come back to the restaurant but she just ignores them.
She was watching american idle. So a conversation about that started. and I wont even write about that because that spins off into other side conversations and then she comes back to it. I do have to hand that much to her, she maybe distracted with her side thoughts but she always finishes her origenal story.
So to anyone who reads this prior to 6pm ish on Friday... any advice besides "be yourself"?
any "inside the mind of a female" things I should know-look out for? lol
OH! so I am going to wear dress pants and my redsox collared shirt. It's black with a redsox emblum on the right chest. It's only about 1.5-1.0 intches. It's not a big advertizement. lol. plus it's my favorite shirt. It's a soft cotten texture.
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