Cheating

Are you sure he'd leave? Some guys (not all, mind you) either have a fantasy about this, or feel that 'it's not cheating as long as it's with another woman'. Stupid, I know, but a lot of guys I know have said that. Maybe yours is one of them? Why don't you start a conversation with him about a similar topic, and ask him hypothetically? See how he feels, and if he seems like he might be okay with it, ask him about it later.

it's prolly just a phase, it'll pass

If my wife wanted to cheat on me with a woman, if she told me.. I'd be turned on. And want to watch. And join in. giggity.

kein mitleid

cheating is cheating. Bite the bullet and get over it.

Yeah...most guys would LIKE that. My husband sure would. He tells me to get a girlfriend. lol.

Not happening though.

Is the "cheating" part important, or is it a desire to be with another woman, even if cheating isn't involved?

If it is just a desire to be intimate with another woman, just talk to your husband and work something out.

If part of the thrill comes from the cheating...well, that can be a problem.