when i was fourteen i wanted a kid really badly and thought since no one really liked me i would just steal a baby and then take them far away where no one could find us i thought i might raise that child and we`d have a wonderful life. So i started looking for careless parents who left there kids unattended i watched and saw several but i never did it i just felt guilty for even thinking of it
Actually, it's just the First World culture in America, most of Europe, parts of Asia, and Australia that see having a child as early as 14 as bad. In most 3rd world countries, 14 is a normal age to start a family. In the Jewish culture, 13-14 is the age where a boy becomes a man (I'm not even going to try to spell it...) and it is completely accepted for the parents of said teen to betroth them or even have them start their families.... Just saying... It's not so prominent any more though...
Why is everyone more shocked about the fact that she wanted a kid at 14, than that she was seriously thinking about taking someone else's child?!! Watching other people's families and trying to judge which one least deserved their child? If you still have these thoughts, my god, please tell a professional before you hurt someone.
wow that's crazy to think that... I wanted a baby at 14 too and tried and tried for one and succeeded at 15. I would never change the way I did things because I loved being a mom. It's all I wanted in the world!
For those using the term 'sick' , please re-read the post and consider the fact that she did not do it... kind of like the man that thinks about cheating but realises his mistake before making it...
Perhaps the part 'since no one really liked me' escaped notice also. I recall feeling incredibly lonely as a teenager and I too fantasized about the future and having my own children. When you feel so empty, the thought of having a child that loves you unconditionally is, I believe... quite a natural desire in such a state of mind.
To the poster: I'm glad you didn't do it though. One day you will have a family of your own and you will understand how heartbreaking a thought it is that someone might take them away from you.
I hope your not lonely anymore.
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