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Conflicted

06/03/2009

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My boyfriend might take a job out of state.

I'm not sure if I want to leave MY job (with benefits, etc) to go with him.

On the one hand, he has tested my patience sorely over the years. If he is offered this job and he takes it, this is my opportunity for us to make a clean break.

On the other hand...I looked at him as he slept last night. And I realized that if I just said the word, he loves me so much he'd sacrifice the job and stay here with me.

Even though he does a lot of things that make me angry, he also actually DOES put his money where his mouth is in ways a lot of people don't.

And...I can't imagine my life without him, conflicts and all.

May God help and guide me.

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you should make a chart of the pros and cons of leaving and staying.

[lady burtStar|0 likes] [|reply]

If you both want to make the relationship work, you should talk about the move and new job. If he is "the one" for you, you will be able to find a new job with benefits. According to your secret, he seems to make you happy, and every relationship has problems.

[xo heatherStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Could you not transition into a long distance relationship for the first little while?

♥ -

[Lauren.Star|0 likes] [|reply]

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