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What's your secret?
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08/26/2011

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I had an affair.

It lasted almost a year. When it was happening, we never called it that. "We aren't having sex, we're just friends." Total denial, even as our feelings for each other grew. He'd hug me everyday, but hugging was our only thing. The secret phone calls, the inside jokes. The things we'd talk about, tell each other. The thrill of being wanted again, of feeling atrractive again. My God. I was unfaithful. I cheated on my husband!

I had an affair!

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tsk i feel so bad for your husband i hope he finds out soon...

[The Dreaming Wife |0 likes] [|reply]

Just leave your husband.

[Anonymous SourceStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Are you sure you didn't just have a friend? Why was it so secret when you weren't doing anything wrong?

If you're "in love" with this person then it's not fair to lead your husband along so not fair.

[Hidden DepthsStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I couldn't agree more.. Enough with this "I love him", "I'm in love with him" bullshit. If u were in love or loved ur husband, shit wouldn't have happened!!

[fearless♥love|0 likes] [|reply]

If you didn't have sex, it doesn't count.

[kein mitleidStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Jeeze... I have affairs every day then! Lol. But seriously... I know it's a little different when you both admit to having 'feelings'- even if you never act on them. Good job for not acting on them, though. That's the hardest part

[Poetic Justice|0 likes] [|reply]

If you haven't slept with this man then you have had what I like to call an emotional affair and if you stop and think about it you can still save your marriage. But it is going to take work and you need to be honest with your husband. Try counseling even if he won't go with you, you should do that for yourself.

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