I still love him!

If he treated you like shit, raped you and molested you what's to say he won't do that again? He may not have done it the couple of months you were together but are you sure you want to put yourself in that position again?

Shar

♥I'm pretty sure I know who posted this! ^.^♥

Bellatrix Lestrange

Can't tell if trolling,


or just really stupid...

she did say she has a MENTAL CONDITION!

You HAVE to be a troll. I pray for all of humanity, that you are a troll.

It's obvious that you two being together is unhealthy.

That's not love.

I know you feel like you still love him, but it sounds like he is no good for you! If he could treat you like shit and rape you and all that, he has a screwy way of showing he loves you! No woman deserves to be treated like that...and having a relationship with him would be unhealthy and probably make your mental conditions worse! I wish you the best, but realise, you deserve better than that. Sometimes you have to let go of the wrong people so that you don't miss the right one when he comes along.

being hurt in any, way, shape or form is love.

The Mama

჻ೋ჻ Yeah I'm gonna say troll. Who the hell would say they love and miss a man who raped and molested them?? Unless this person grew up in that environment and somehow thinks it's okay... but I'm still saying troll. ჻ೋ჻

Ashalicious

Why would someone stay with their abuser? It happens all the time.
"“Domestic” Stockholm Syndrome is a coping mechanism to endure continual intimate violence. Victims are always thinking about their survival and how they can control their non-controllable environment. Victims are in a constant sensation of numbness separating from a part of themselves yet holding on to the piece of reality so they don’t completely disconnect. They are continually strategizing to emotionally survive and in order to do this, victims focus on their abuser’s kindness rather than his brutality. A high stress environment keeps one from seeing clearly.
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A woman who is suffering from “Domestic” Stockholm Syndrome has been brain washed into believing in his world. To her he holds her safety, her life, her survival. He has convinced her of this through continual emotional, psychologically and physical intimidation. Through this she sees that her only way to survive is to be loyal to him."

To the original poster - stay away from him. You are vulnerable because of your mental condition. You need someone who is able to support your growth and independence. If you are having lapses of memory this is more reason to do so. I suggest you see a psychologist if you don't already.

჻ೋ჻ Sorry, this sounds too much like a fake, not a real person. Plenty of people leave abusers all the time. This is just a secret for attention. ჻ೋ჻

Ashalicious

i smell troll. if not though, you need to get your survival instinct checked because this dude will probably end up killing you one day. stay away from him.

I'm not a troll..this really happened to me. The thing is why do i have to still love him? Why wont the pain go away its been three years since we got a divorced. it feels like the pain will never go away its like my heart keeps aching for him.

He never did hit me but he would yell at me. My mother always told me to break up with him but I just couldn't I loved him to much.

I'm just afraid of getting hurt again i dont think i can take that kind of hurt.

people don't ever change. if he treated you like shit before, he'll do it again.