I'm trying

Sometimes life is unfair. Yea, it's sad that she died & someone else is enjoying the husband & family she left behind. But honestly if she is good to them & makes them happy then it's much better than them being lonely without a woman in the picture. If I died today I wouldn't want my husband & child to live alone the rest of their lives. I would want a wonderful woman to step in (and not take my place but fill some of that void so to speak) so they wouldn't feel so alone the rest of their lives.

I 100% agree and couldn't have said it better myself.

Hidden Depths

life isnt fair.... life is hard...

i am guessing this is two men raising her kids... but i am sure she wants the kids to have a happy life, and allow him to take a role in thier lives... and family... she would have wanted it to be for better and not for wrost...

i am sorry for your loss

i told my husband if i die first i want him to find another woman once he is ready... (yes we had this discussion) i would wnat him to be happy

*~His Mrs.Right~*

wow

That's rough, I'm sorry. But think of it from his perspective: Should he have to be unhappy for the rest of his life because she passed? How fair is that? And certainly the kids appreciate having someone in that roll, even if it isn't her. It might help them cope.

Why do you assume it's two men???

that didnt seem like 2 men to me ?