In Love With You

how about you tell your husband that you're in love with someone else? that's not fair to him AT ALL.

I agree with the above statement. Cheating is incredibly, incredibly selfish.

Well, if you've already kissed him, I don't think he'll be completely surprised, so what's the problem? But yeah, I do agree with the other commenters, you should tell your husband.

Let's not all assume that this is A: cheating or B: a man. You never know.
*bi-poly-2-cents*

polywog

Thats not fair to ur husband I feel bad for.him

Tell him then u could date the homewrecker

*~Amber~*

This isn't fair to your husband. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman or if you don't think you're cheating, it would still hurt him.

I realize that I'm assuming that the writer is not polyamorous (is that the right term?), which is wrong of me. If the writer is polyamorous, then you should totally go for this other person! Life is short, and from what you have written it seems as though he/she has feelings for you. However, if your husband believes that the two of you are in a monogamous relationship then you definitely need to talk to him and be honest. Cheating is a terrible thing.

It doesn't matter. Even if they were polyamorous, it isn't right to be in love with someone else without telling your partner your feelings. It's not right and it's not fair.

The only way being poly works, is if you are completely and totally honest with one another.

♥Mindi

○Mindi

Every time I read an entry on BloopSecrets about cheating, then read the comments on the entries, I learn how much Bloopers are really against cheating. It just surprises me because so many people cheat on their spouses now. Disclaimer: I'm not saying cheating is okay. I'm only surprised by the immense response to cheating entries.

xo heather

Haha I'm totally against cheating NOW. I used to cheat on past boyfriends. But ever since I found & fell in love with my current boyfriend I can't even imagine ever cheating on him. I'm quite the hypocrite.


♥ Karissa

Blitch. [+1]

I was never the cheating or lying type. Some people are faithful, some people aren't. But I don't think it makes you a hypocrite to change your views. It's part of growing up and maturing.

xo heather

not fair to ur husband, not fair at all!

fearless♥love

I assume this person is not over an ex...been there...done that. It takes time....

I totally know how you feel

i hope you do whats right, maybe try a week away from both of these guys to sober up your head from love. just away from society? youl definitely know who you want the most.

but leave your husband on good terms.
when you get back, have a heart to heart chat to your hubby, be honest, and ask if he feels love or just plain "need" towards you.