I have been dating a man who I thought was the most amazing man who ever lived. We are in our late 20's and I am divorced. We have been together several months and everything was amazing. He has told me he loves me more than life, he wants to move in together in a month. He wants to get engaged within the next year. And day to day he and I are perfect together. To the point where unromantic friend and family are beginning to think that soul mates so exist by watching us interact. Then I went through his phone and found out that he is on dating sites and emailing girls asking them sexual questions and he is also paying for some porn sites when he knows I cannot and will not stand porn. He had continually lied about both of these things. This has thrown me. I confronted him and he confessed only as I discovered more and more by looking through his phone. He says he is ready to commit now and that he was scared before and that he only was talking to girls because it was how he has operated his whole life and he just kept doing it because of habit and because he had never been serious like this about a woman before so he kept doing what he had always done. What do I freakin do?
I love him but this is unbearable. My marriage ended because of similar things with porn.
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