I feel like sometimes my husband & I are just not ment to be. We fight alot about stupid silly things. Maybe it's because we are struggling so bad with bills that the stress has put a toll on our marriage. I love him. It's just hard.
I always pretend things are great. Put on that happy face. For what? I don't know. No one is perfect, so why do I try so hard?
Alot of people try and make it sound like their marriage is perfect but really down deep its not..it probably is stress from bills..I know how stressful money can make a relationship..just hang in there! If you guys love each other you will over come this
i know the feeling, but marriage is hard, that is one ofthe reasons why we have a high divorce rate, people giving up other than cheating and abusing and abandonment(i onli think theres certain reasons to be divorced tha twas how i was raised but everyone else make thier choices) anyways, one of the main things couples fight about (married couples) is money.
you try so hard because you dont want people to think that you guys might be unhappy, i have been married for almost a year, and i know it is hard, we fight alot, we have alot of things going on as well with our families, and we have to try to keep a communication it is hard if you dont have the strong foundation of communicaiton, maybe you guys are lacking on communmication, or take a break from each other like, you go out with your girls for the day (free of course) and he spends the day away
i put on a happy face to show my friends everything is great and family to think everything is great. but i know we have issues, and we will work through em, those people who have beenmarried for more than 10 years or whatever, notice they dont really have so much issues like they used to i am sure, and they say a couple that fights are healthy, and a couple that doesnt fight they have a problem...
Marriage IS hard. Bills, kids... the stress just piles on and sometimes it's hard to remember to make each other feel loved. It's all a normal part of the routine.
Money worries can put a lot of stress on any marriage. I hope that things get better for you.
I think it's good that you still TRY, even though no one is perfect. It's important to do your best, but also cut yourself slack when you realize your shortcomings. Hang in there.
I agree with Amber. Marriage is hard and it takes a lot of work. My husband and I don't get a long 100% of the time and we have our differences but we always manage to work things out because we love each other and we understand that we have to put in the work to make our marriage successful. If you can't handle the small things that come up, how are you going to handle the big things? You have to learn to work together, communicate, and keep working at it!
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Alot of people try and make it sound like their marriage is perfect but really down deep its not..it probably is stress from bills..I know how stressful money can make a relationship..just hang in there! If you guys love each other you will over come this 
I agree with Amber. Marriage is hard and it takes a lot of work. My husband and I don't get a long 100% of the time and we have our differences but we always manage to work things out because we love each other and we understand that we have to put in the work to make our marriage successful. If you can't handle the small things that come up, how are you going to handle the big things? You have to learn to work together, communicate, and keep working at it!
