Miscarriage

They don't tell you to wait because they're trying to control you. They tell you to wait because you should give your body time to heal from the miscarriage. If you get pregnant too soon, it can result in another miscarriage or an unhealthy pregnancy.
Of course it is your decision, but be careful.

-AndBabyMakesFour!-

What she said ^. It's good that it hasn't discouraged you, and that you are willing to try again, but you need to let your BODY heal. Just because you're healed mentally and emotionally, that doesn't mean that your body is physically healed.♥ -

Lauren.

its discouraged for a reason.. just keep that in mind and be safe

I hate it when people refer to their children as "mistakes"....it just doesn't sound nice.

She said her son was not a mistake, her previous relationship was a mistake.

You should wait alittle bit they a month or two or a circle or two after your next period to give your body sometime to heal.. if you try now and your body isn't healing you could end up in the same situation again......which is the miscarriage.

I've never heard of a baby that is born nearly four pounds at 31 weeks gestation. That seems unlikely.

xo heather

I was born at 32 weeks and was 3lbs 11oz. So yes it is possible thank u very much!

You should listen to your doctor. I worked with a woman who thought the same way you did - and it nearly killed her. she had 4 miscarriages and immediately kept trying afterwards. She never had the baby; she was forced to stop b being hospitalized.

You have a 9 month old and your trying for another baby already? I know ppl do it all the time but that doesn't meant that it's healthy.
Your body will pay for it later on, you need to give your body time to re-cooperate, otherwise there could be complications/ infections etc, especially considering your first one was only 3lbs.