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12/22/2009

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I am 20 years old, and am engaged to a wonderful man whom I loove with all my heart. Neither of us want kids, but recently he's been having dreams that I got pregnant.. which of course got me thinking that I wouldn't mind having a kid with him someday (as in years from now). But every time he tells me that he has "another baby dream" he tells me "I am never having kids". Not a big deal accept that even though I dont want kids, I want the availability to have them... Sorry for the horrible anology but it's like a lazy person having gym membership... You don't necesarily want to work out 3-5 times a week, but you want to know that the option is there if you every choose to do so. That being said... I love him, there's no way I could or would leave him... but the fact that he says I don't have that option with him, kind of angers me...

(yes, I know the best solution is to talk about it, and I will in a few days when the talk can be face-to-face.)

(yes I will post a little update afterwords)

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when you get older you will both want kids... you are still young and the time isn't right.

[.Marissa. Star

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*hugs* I always said I was never going to have kids, now I have a beautiful yet cheeky little boy who will be 2 in April. I wouldnt change him for the world!

[~insert name~ Star

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i have preggo dreams all the time!

[Miss

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What he wants now and what he will want a little while down the road may be two different things. I agree, you should talk to him about it as soon as possible, but dont be too upset with him if he holds his ground. There's always a chance he could change his mind!

[Poetic Justice|0 likes] [|reply]

If he's your age, I'm sure he's bound to change his mind once he's older than he is now. I don't know many 20 year old men who openly admit to really WANTING kids, ya know?

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[Lauren.

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sometimes, dreaming of babies is a sign that something in your life is going to change, it doesn't necessarily mean that you are going to have kids.

"To see a baby in your dream, signifies innocence, warmth and new beginnings. Babies symbolize something in your own inner nature that is pure, vulnerable, helpless and/or uncorrupted. If you find a baby in your dream, then it suggests that you have acknowledged your hidden potential. If you dream that you forgot you had a baby, then it suggests that you are trying hide your own vulnerabilities; You do not want to let others know of your weaknesses.

If you dream that you are on your way to the hospital to have a baby, then it signifies your issues of dependency and your desire to be completely care for. Perhaps you are trying to get out of some responsibility. If you are pregnant, then a more direct interpretation may simply mean that you are experiencing some anxieties of making it to the hospital when the time comes.

To dream of a crying baby, indicates that a part of yourself that is deprived of attention and needs some nurturing. Alternatively, it represents your unfulfilled goals and a sense of lacking in your life. If you dream that a baby is neglected, then it suggests that you are not paying enough attention to yourself. You are not utilizing your full potential. Alternatively, this dream could represent your fears about your own children and your ability to protect and to provide for them. from dreammoods.com

[Immortal Shadows|0 likes] [|reply]

If he doesn't want babies, and you do, you're not with the right person. Don't assume he will change his mind. He may, but he may not.

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