I love my son, but I miss my pre-baby life... like a lot. Sometimes I fantasize about living my current life without a child. I would be far more tan and have way fewer worries.
That's a terrible thought. Don't have kids if you don't want to be a full time mom. I've been ttc for a year and I would give up all fun to have a baby.
჻ೋ჻ It's not always easy being a parent, I have experience there, but there are people who are desperate for children and they can't have them. You were given a gift and you need to look at it that way. Remember that you had your son for a reason, even if you don't see it. ჻ೋ჻
Don't let them get you down. Most people have these thoughts at certain times, but are too rpoud to say so. It doesn't mean you love your son any less if, at the end of the day, you'd die for him if you had to. Sometimes we reflect on our past lives. We do it in all tihngs we do. Relationships: remembering an ex and how they kissed, or whatever. Marriage: remembering how you once were when you were dating. It's not anything shameful, as long as it's just reminiscing. If that's all it is, take a load off, relax and then go back to being a mommy or daddy to your son.
I'm in and out of that mode too. The truth is though, they are a blessing we just have to wait until they get a little bigger to enjoy more of "me time"
These are probably the thoughts that
the women who kill their children have
before they do it. Pure selfishness.
Don't have sex or use condoms if you
don't want to get pregnant, moron.
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