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What's your secret?
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Pregnant and herpes?

03/25/2011

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sooo i havent told anyone this but a month ago an std test cam back and i have herpes.

but im also pregnant... so i hope the baby doesn't have herpes too. anywayz.

i dont know, i'm just scared to tell my bf because he'll leave me and i cant afford to be a single parent.

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Anywayz? What are you, fourteen?

I call shenanigans on this whole secret.


[Patchwork PrincessStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I've seen worse on this site. I'd LOVE to call shenanigans on most of the terrible moms who write here.

[-chiaromezzo-|0 likes] [|reply]

So, if this is actually for real, you'd rather NOT tell your boyfriend, and let him get infected also? That's reallllly mature.

[ღ.Expecting #3Star|0 likes] [|reply]

he probably gave it to her.

[Greta GarbageStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Regardless of how immature this post is, if you are pregnant and have herpes, the doctors will treat you if you have an outbreak, and if you have one close to your due date, they'll give you a c-section so the baby won't contract it.

[J♥me|0 likes] [|reply]

I have to agree with Patchwork Princess and Expecting #3

[*:.SoA.:*|0 likes] [|reply]

I call shenanigans.

But if it is real, you need to tell your boyfriend so he doesn't get infected also. It is really immature and selfish not to.

[holyemoly.Star|0 likes] [|reply]

Yeah like J♥me said, your baby won't get it from being inside you. They contract herpes by contact when you deliver. You'll either be treated so you don't have an outbreak or have the c-section.

But yeah, you need to tell your boyfriend. Wherever you got it from, it's only a skin condition (sexually transmitted, but still no worse than acne aside from the transmitted part), and as embarrassing as it is, you shouldn't be ashamed. Honestly.

Good luck. Tell your boyfriend.

[Jaime|0 likes] [|reply]

If you're able to bang the boy you should be able to tell him if you've got herpes, in case he WASN'T the one you got it from. Seriously.

Otherwise... wow. Erm.

[Doing DallasStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I'm not jumping to any conclusions to if this fake or not, but why wouldn't you tell your boyfriend? It's best to know right away so you can get treatment right away. You not saying anything is being a pure bitch (excuse my french) in my opinion. It's very selfish.

[CrystalShapedHeart |0 likes] [|reply]

჻ೋ჻ What's the difference from calling shenanigans and calling troll? We need a Bloop Lingo Dictionary!

But not telling a guy you have an STD is pretty messed up. Why are you going to punish him by possibly infecting him? Well unless he gave it to you. Then I think you can hump each other happily since you both have it. As for the baby, I believe as the above commenters said, it's not a disease that is passed onto an infant in utero. However, you need to inform your doctor so when the time comes you can be on any medication needed so you do keep your child from contracting it. ჻ೋ჻

[AshaliciousStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Haha, not too much of a difference. Shenanigans is more like saying 'oh this is bullshit'.

Usually a troll (to me) has some type of identity. Be it a real or a fake one Usually trolls want to get some sort of credit for the attention.

[Patchwork PrincessStar|0 likes] [|reply]

჻ೋ჻ Thank you oh wise one lol I wasn't sure! So troll is a person trying to get credit for something and shenanigans is BS - got it! What's the name for someone we think is a fake? I thought that was a troll. ჻ೋ჻

[AshaliciousStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Yeah, I'd call a fake person a troll They usually make up fake stories and stuff for attention.

Like that one chick who faked like three miscarriages

[Patchwork PrincessStar|0 likes] [|reply]

჻ೋ჻ Ok so troll is a fake too. Aww it's so nice our days of fakes aren't gone! I actually slightly miss the fake mom's and fake preggos. It's like a game of tag finding their diaries and calling them out lol ჻ೋ჻

[AshaliciousStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Actually, if you sleep with someone KNOWING you are infected with an STD and you intentionally fail to inform them, YOU can be held libel if they contract the disease. So if you lack the decency to tell him, perhaps you should think about that.

As for the baby, expect to have a c-section. Unless your disease is controlled & you have not had any outbreaks near your due date, you will have a cesearean as the baby is at risk if you have him/her vaginal. Neonatal herpes is deadly to a baby, as it effects their brain, not just their genitals.

[Blessed♥MamaStar|0 likes] [|reply]

if u have herpes its to late for you bf anyway....hed already have it too....thats if he didnt already have it. and yes ur baby will have herpes may not be the kind u have but later in life could have warts or cold sores....and "anywayz"? wtf how old are u. noone over the legal limit writes like that....like lol

[spanna|0 likes] [|reply]

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