Settle

08/23/2010

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Sometimes I think my husband married me just because he didn't want to look for anyone else/couldn't find anyone else. I feel like he just married me to settle because he couldn't find someone prettier/thinner, etc. I feel like was just convenient.

The only person I have ever slept with is him and I'm sure that's a big positive to him too.
His type of girl is honestly: a thin, pretty emo chick, Sometimes I hate him.

And another thing is: Sometimes I regret being with him so soon, because I haven't gotten to live yet. Sometimes I feel so trapped, even though I'm the one that controls him.

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Almost feel like I could have written this myself...hopefully we're both wrong though and our other halves love us for who we are.

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I don't know a lot of men that 'settle' into a marriage with just anyone. A lot of men nowadays seem to think that marriage is a trap, and the last thing they want to do is fall into it with someone they don't really want to be with. I wouldn't worry about him 'settling' too much. But it sounds like you may have a deeper problem here.

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Us guys act like that sometimes. We're just guys. There may be a little something to it (just like you regret being with him so soon, sometimes..but hopefully don't act on it). There's a difference between a fleeting emotion and a lifelong choice and desire.

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