Recently my husband has lost interest in whether or not i achieve orgasm during intercourse. it used to matter to him and he was always a very generous lover. now he doesn't even ask if i want to. he just gets his release and i lose my chance.
I had this problem with my ex... but I'm a bitch and just started talking in front of his friends about how he doesn't satisfy me anymore. He corrected that REAL quickly.
Next few times you guys have sex you should have your orgasm (whether you really do or not doesn't really matter, just make it seem like you do) and then proclaim that you are finished and go about doing whatever it was you were doing before you started bumpin. Maybe a little taste of his own medicine will put him back in his place
My boyfriend is still in the "I care" phase, but sometimes he can't help it. We still use protection (condoms) and neither of us want children, so my way of assuring that this doesn't happen is to not let him put one on until I'm done. It would be risky for most, but he's so completely neurotic and terrified that he can't get off til the condom goes on... Hehehe
Oh yeah, I know that. I told him that when we first got together just to make sure we were on the same page But we're... I'm not even sure what the right word would be to describe it... Easy going? We've discussed it, and if I were to get pregnant, we'd obviously raise a baby and be a happy little family. Deep down, I think we'd both be a little happy/excited about it, honestly.
We're old enough, and more or less have the means to raise a child, just not the drive I guess. We're not TRYING to conceive, but if it happens, it happens, and neither of us would regret it, so we are semi-reckless (we don't use protection at all the first couple of days after my period, but we do every time after that, and like I said before, he waits until I finish, etc).
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He corrected that REAL quickly.
Nice!
What an ass.
my husband was like that but now he makes sure we hage more fun..
But we're... I'm not even sure what the right word would be to describe it... Easy going? We've discussed it, and if I were to get pregnant, we'd obviously raise a baby and be a happy little family. Deep down, I think we'd both be a little happy/excited about it, honestly.
