I wish I could say this on my diary but I can't. I'm afraid people would lose respect for me.
My boyfriend called me this morning. His ex girlfriend tested positive for Chlamydia(apparently) and now he and I are getting tested. Him sometime this week and me sometime next week. I was just recently tested already but better safe than sorry.
We're thinking either 1) she's lying and wants to cause problems in the relationship or 2) she was wondering if he ever cheated on her.
I'm praying she's just a cunt and thinks this STD scare will drive me away from him, even though it wont.
I don't see how anyone would lose respect for you. You're having sex with your boyfriend. His ex is obviously nasty or doesn't know how to use proper protection. If she did she wouldnt' have the disease.
I'd personally respect you more for going and getting tested, to make sure that you and possible future partners are safe.
i have had chlamydia. its curable. so no need for u to worry if u or ur man come up positive. mistakes happen. we are all human and no one should lose respect for u cuz ur mans ex was a skank. not ur fault.