So I had to get back in a relationship wiht a man i don't love and that annoys me in order to get out of a domestic violence relationship and i hate that I am pretending to love him so i can survive
i think i know who wrote this.. but i could be wrong.. The only thing i'd have to say is that.. You need to survive and be yourself of course.. however he wanted to help you get out of that situation.. clearly he loves you and you still have somewhat feels for him.. (more of a friendship then love).. but your not pretending..
You 'have' to be with someone to not be with someone else? Interesting. You know, the police make better body-guards than fake boyfriends. Stand up for yourself BY yourself.
...On the other hand, good job on getting out of the other relationship. Even if I don't agree with your means of doing it, it still takes courage and I respect that.
I know what it feels like to get out of a abusive relationship and have someone help me out, but I didn't date him because of that. You don't have to be in a relationship with anyone. It's probably better to not be in one right now. You have the power to be strong and if you don't use that strength you will just wind up in the same situation again eventually. Don't fake love, it's not fair for anyone.
So now's the part where you tell your current boyfriend, "Look, I'm under a lot of emotional stress right now and just need to be single for a while." And if you are fearful of your ex, you call the police. PLEASE call the police. There are so many fraudulent domestic violence cases out there that they LOVE to help someone who is a real survivor.
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