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Tired of being logical

10/23/2010

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I split up with my ex because he was less than faithful to me. There were other things too.
This was a while back, but here lately i've been missing him like crazy. I've never loved anyone the way I loved him, I truly believed that he was my one. And it makes me really angry thinking about the fact that he could ruin something that could ruin something so perfect.
Because when it was good, it was the best i've ever felt.
I'm super confused about what to do. And recently we may have made out. Which only confuses me more.
I'm putting this on here because I don't want people to hate me or tell me i'm stupid.
My heart wants to try again, but the logical side of me says it won't work. Even if things were different, would I really be able to trust him again?

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people don't really change. if he's treating you this way now, he probably always will.

you're worth more than that.

[& skull.Star|0 likes] [|reply]

No, you probably wouldn't be able to trust him again And stop making out with him--that only makes things worse. You deserve someone who will treat you with dignity and respect 100% of the time, not just when he wants to.

[Hidden DepthsStar|0 likes] [|reply]

just think - if he cheated on you - he must not love you

cuz if one hits one or another - they dont love them, if one cheats they dont love them... (thats just me and i am sure people would agree not all but im sure some would)

ur better off if he cheated on u and hurt you...

[*~Amber~*Star|0 likes] [|reply]

Just because he cheated once doesnt mean he will continue to. Did he come clean about it or did you have to find out? Do you think he will do it again? Do you both want to work on it? What is it worth to you? You have to decide all the answers before you come up with a plan.



♥Mindi

[○MindiStar|0 likes] [|reply]

You said he was 'less than faithful'... You didn't say he actually CHEATED. What did he do, exactly? Granted, there isn't much he could do with another person that would be forgivable in my eyes, but maybe it's something that could be forgiven in yours. Obviously, you wouldn't trust him again, at least not for a very long time, but trust can be earned back. Everyone makes mistakes.

I wouldn't go as far as to say that it's NOT worth a second chance.

[Poetic Justice|0 likes] [|reply]

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