What's your secret?
by BloopSecrets

Unhappy Marriage

11/01/2010

I don't think my husband is in love with me anymore. He won't admit it, but the signs are there. We have a very complicated relationship but the bottom line is, I think the fire has gone out. Not for me. But for him. Sadly, the more remote he becomes the more I want him. I wish I could undo some mistakes I made in the distant past but I am not even sure those things have anything to do with it. He expects me to do housework and laundry and take care of the kids and work at my job but he never expresses any appreciation when I do those things. I wonder what he would do if I just stopped carrying my end of things? I hate being taken for granted and I am wishing for more romance in my life.

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Get help or talk to him ?, or self help books good luck

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Have you tried sitting him down and telling him your concerns and how you are feeling? There could be things going on with him at work or something bothering him that he might not be ready to talk about yet. Maybe he is waiting for you to start the conversation. If anything maybe seeking professional counseling would be a great step.

[Greta Garbage Star

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read the book "the art of seduction".

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these concerns shouldn't go unsaid, imo. talk to him and if he loves you he'll understand and want to fix things.

[Miss

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Best solution: talk to him.♥

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I know what its like to be expected to do those things and not feel appreciated it. I also know what its like if you stop doing those things too. Nothing changes, your house is just a bigger mess than what itw as before.

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