I have the opportunity to have a stable relationship and a stable life. The chance to never worry about anything including money, wish a man who wants to know and love me for me. He is intrigued by me and wants to know my mind my heart my soul. he wants more than just sex. He wants long term relationship. He would give me everything in life I want. Everything in a man I want. And we would be perfect for eachother because we are much a like and understand eachother.
My secret. I'm still not over my ex and had he not broken my heart like he did I would give up the life I have longed for since I was a child. I want more than anything to have the stupidity to run back to him like he wants me to, but For once in my life I wnat to be selfish and take the good road. I want the money the relationship. the best friend before lovers. I want to be selfish and do something amazing for myself.
I can't seem to understand what is selfish about forming a relationship with a person who truly cares about you? Rarely does one wait to "get over" their ex before dating someone else.
I think it depends.
On how much you love the new guy, whether things could possibly work out with the old guy. There's a lot to think about in this one.
I'm kind of going through something similar.