We went to college and had adventures separately. Then we dated, we got married, we moved onto a new place. We are independent. We help out our families even though they never helped us. We travel yearly to new places. We are responsible with our money. We have wonderful pets. We're going to buy a house next year when this lease is up. We're having a wonderful life and we're only in our late 20s.
But I can't seem to get pregnant. My secret is I'm so angry and envious of those who have children. I did everything "the right way". We waited until we were settled in life. I know I have a few more years before I worry but I can't help but be less than enthusiastic about those around me having kids and they're my age and in a less stable place in life. I just feel like it's not even fair.
Hope you can get things figured out with your doctor. I almost feel this way, but in the end I'm grateful I had the experiences I did, even if that means I may not be able to have my own children. Adoption is a wonderful thing that my husband and I plan to do regardless of whether we are able to have our own or not.
There are a lot of women that feel the same as you. It really isn't fair. I'm a member of a Long Term TTC forum and it's helped me see that I'm not alone. The Mommy Playbook has a lot of supportive women from WTTC to LTTTC to TTC siblings to pregancy to playgroups if you want somewhere to vent. Everyone is friendly and welcoming.
I have a lot of friends who suffer from infertility problems and I am sad for them a lot. Its amazing how there are women out there who have zero interest in motherhood however they are the ones who dont stop breeding, when there are so many women out there that would do anything just to be a mother.
I dont know you (obviously, but I wish you the best of luck)
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There are a lot of women that feel the same as you. It really isn't fair. I'm a member of a Long Term TTC forum and it's helped me see that I'm not alone. The Mommy Playbook has a lot of supportive women from WTTC to LTTTC to TTC siblings to pregancy to playgroups if you want somewhere to vent. Everyone is friendly and welcoming.
I have a lot of friends who suffer from infertility problems and I am sad for them a lot. Its amazing how there are women out there who have zero interest in motherhood however they are the ones who dont stop breeding, when there are so many women out there that would do anything just to be a mother.