DeVisualise Add Fave Search
Not Logged In
0
Your Username:
Your Password:

[ sign up | recover ]

What's your secret?
by BloopSecrets

previous entry: Plans

next entry: Dear Angry Customer

Why do I do this?

09/22/2010

Our Guidelines . Submit Your Secret . Link to Us


I was with a guy for 4 years. We were each others first everything and we had a good relationship and he was absolutely crazy about me, but I just was not feeling it the last year of it, and when he left to go work at a camp during the summer we hardly talked so I broke it off. He was really upset but he was mature about it and said he at least wanted me in his life somehow so we remained friends and we left things on good terms. I started dating my fiance, and the ex got married, and we stopped talking to each other.

My fiance is awesome and I have feelings for him like I've never felt before. We have been together for 3 and a half years and just had our second child together. He treats me right and we have all the right things in common. But for some reason I have lately been thinking about my ex every day and he doesn't have a facebook but his wife does and I look at her face book all the time to see what is going on with them. I emailed him about a year ago just to see how he was doing and he never responded and I guess maybe it hurt my feelings because now I would love to hear from him-- like I said, I think about him constantly. I feel horrible about this considering I'm in a very serious committed relationship and I wish it would stop but I don't know how to.

previous entry: Plans

next entry: Dear Angry Customer

0 likes, 3 comments

(signed comments only) add comment

Add Comment

Add Comment

Please enter the following WHITE digits in the box below.
Confirmation Code

Sit down and try to remember every little thing that you felt in the last year of your relationship with him. Don't just look at the broad picture for a second and move on- Try to remember exactly how you felt during that year for as long as possible. Trust me, it works

And if possible, I wouldn't recommend contacting him if you guys have lost contact. It will save you, him, and both your partners a lot of problems down the road, especially if you don't know his wife and there's the possibility that she may be the jealous type.

[Poetic Justice|0 likes] [|reply]

first thing u need to do is just stop lookin at the facebook stuff, and sounds like ur a bit jealous

i blocked my exs maybe u should too? u should talk to ur finacee and tell him how u feel maybe ur not over the guy

[*~Amber~*Star|0 likes] [|reply]

It's normal to think about him, your past relationship, and wonder how he is doing. Especially since your relationship was pretty good. But your ex is an ex for a reason - try to remember what those reasons are. And even then, if you have trouble coming up with reasons...remember that it's so that you can be with the man you're with now.

[JanesseStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Online Friends
Offline Friends