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What's your secret?
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Dirty Thoughts

03/22/2011

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I am married. Not happy. But working on it.
I have had this guy best friend for 11 years. We've always talked dirty to each other. We know all of each other's secret's. Secret's my husband has no idea about.
So I can just be myself with him. He know's what I like.
So we talk dirty. It's harmless, isn't it?
I have always wanted to be with my friend, but it's impossible. Right now he's backpacking in china and he's on his way to ireland tomorrow to backpack there for 2 1/2 weeks and then going back to Canada (where he lives.)
We've never met. We've only known each other threw webcam, messager, phone and snailmail.
But I know him more than anyone as he does me aswell.
My husband know's he's my friend. But he doesn't know I talk dirty to him and he doesn't know I sent him a chest photo of myself to him today.
I feel guilty. But I know my marriage won't last. I know my friend will always be there.

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Then why don't you just end your marriage and stop fucking over your husband?

[Anonymous SourceStar|0 likes] [|reply]

i agree

[fearless♥loveStar|0 likes] [|reply]

i agree

[His♥Babe|0 likes] [|reply]

I agree, too.

[Scruddle|0 likes] [|reply]

I agree.

[Hidden DepthsStar|0 likes] [|reply]

What is the point of even being married if you are going to do stuff like that? People never want something like that to happen to them but they are willing to do it themselves.

[JadeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Perhaps the reason you are unhappy in your marriage is because you do things like this. Whether your husband knows what you are doing or not, it still does damage.

And how do you know that your friend will "always be there?"

[JanesseStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I agree!

[**StephanieNicole**|0 likes] [|reply]

"Make it burn always with the hardest flame!"

How can your friend always be there if you've never even met him in person? Wtf?

& if you're saying that your marriage won't last then stop wasting your husband's time, your time, everybody's time and end it.

But, wow, how sad.♥

[CrazyBellatrixStar|0 likes] [|reply]

emotional cheating...

[fearless♥loveStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Wtf is wrong with people seriously. How would you feel if your husband was sending pictures of his junk and talking dirty to some chick he met on the internet??? Probably pretty crappy. So what the hell gives you the right?? Also, "working on it" how in the HELL is sending pictures of your titties to someone you met on the INTERNET considering "Working on it" ?!!?! I hope your husband wises up and files divorce papers. Considering YOU'RE the one that CHEATED, you dont deserve nor will you get a penny of whats his.

[Betch.|0 likes] [|reply]

*like*

[Emily the StrangeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I totally agree with this 100%.

[holyemoly.Star|0 likes] [|reply]

If you can openly say "I know my marriage won't last", spare your husband the time he is wasting on being with you & file for a divorce, or tell him that it would be in his best interest to do so because you are in love with someone else. -True

[True|0 likes] [|reply]

Get a divorce and stop being such a whore.

Marriage is for life. If you're flashing your tits to some stranger on the internet and talking dirty as you say, then you don't deserve the wonderful man you call your husband. I don't care how he is, he deserves better than you.

I knew a guy for that long online. After 12 years, we met in real life and dated. He was the biggest douche ever and I'm not even friends with him anymore.

Either divorce your husband and good luck, or ditch the "friend" and get counseling, assuming your husband would stay with you.

[Jaime|0 likes] [|reply]

^^^FULL of win.

[Betch.|0 likes] [|reply]

Epic.
Bloop needs like buttons. *like*

[holyemoly.Star|0 likes] [|reply]

How would you feel if you found out your husband was speaking to someone the way that you are speaking with your friend?

[Mommy2Brycen+1Star|0 likes] [|reply]


I'm not genuinely happy with my husband anymore either, but I have enough of a heart to not hurt him in any way, shape, or form. I always put myself in his shoes and ask myself if something would/wouldn't hurt him before I do it.

I'll admit that I have had thoughts of cheating and wonder what it'd be like with someone else, but it stays in my head. I would never act on it because it's just wrong.

[Khoquetishღ|0 likes] [|reply]

You win the frikkin' internet. Glad to see someone still has SOME KIND OF APPRECIATION for what WEDDING VOWS MEAN.

[Betch.|0 likes] [|reply]

So glad you're not my wife. This is cheating, and your husband doesn't deserve to be treated like shit. That's what you're doing to him.

[kein mitleidStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Spend more time learning to use apostrophes correctly and less time screwing around on your husband.
But seriously, you're obviously not "working" on a happy marriage if you're doing all this sexual stuff with someone else.

[Aubrey;Star|0 likes] [|reply]

^^AGAIN full of WIN

[Betch.|0 likes] [|reply]

It's not harmless, it's cheating, and no matter what state your marriage is in, your husband does not deserve to be cheated on.

[Pink.Polka.Dots|0 likes] [|reply]

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