I am 20 years old, and am engaged to a wonderful man whom I loove with all my heart. Neither of us want kids, but recently he's been having dreams that I got pregnant.. which of course got me thinking that I wouldn't mind having a kid with him someday (as in years from now). But every time he tells me that he has "another baby dream" he tells me "I am never having kids". Not a big deal accept that even though I dont want kids, I want the availability to have them... Sorry for the horrible anology but it's like a lazy person having gym membership... You don't necesarily want to work out 3-5 times a week, but you want to know that the option is there if you every choose to do so. That being said... I love him, there's no way I could or would leave him... but the fact that he says I don't have that option with him, kind of angers me...
(yes, I know the best solution is to talk about it, and I will in a few days when the talk can be face-to-face.)
(yes I will post a little update afterwords) |
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*hugs* I always said I was never going to have kids, now I have a beautiful yet cheeky little boy who will be 2 in April. I wouldnt change him for the world!
sometimes, dreaming of babies
is a sign that something in your life is going to change, it doesn't necessarily mean that you are going to have kids.