But when is the "right time"? there is always a bad time but never really a good time. When I fell pregnant with Oscar I had just taken out a loan to do my driving and to get a car. When I found out, I wanted to payback the loan then and there, I hadn't
touched any of it. Then I thought about it sensibly. Pay it back, don't drive and be stuck in an emergancy and not be able to move far due to transport. OR have 5 years of debt (now 2 years left) have Oscar and be able to drive. Able to move house too
as I could drive anywhere. I feel I made the right decision at the time and I stick by it. Once my loan is paid off in 2 years, I will be £80 a month better off. I will be able to save so much that I will be able to help towards bills more, be able
to save for a decent holiday. If I hadn't have learnt how to drive when I did, I would have been stuck in Smelly Lowestoft with a child and no transport. Career wise, I am slowly taking on more and more responsibility. All that is left for me to learn
is management and they are going to help me do that once I am upto date in the resturant. No point learning everything at once and then getting bits wrong! Yes it may have taken longer than planned but I am getting there. Just because you become a parent
means everything else has to stop. It just goes on the back burner. As I say sweetie, there isn't a right time but there is always ways and means round it. Plus Dave should know this, lol! He worked with me lol! It will happen huni. Just gotta be paitent.
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Are you relieved? Or sad? Or both. I guess it is a good thing because it will happen when it is supposed to happen, if you believe that everything has it's place and time. *hugs* I hope you are ok and not worrying or stressed now.
maybe instead of saying to him lets start trying, go for something like lets stop using protection and see what happens. Not everyone concieves first time! xx
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*big hugs* at least you know now. heat packs I find help, the ones you can put in your trousers lol! Sounds random but they work! xxx
Are you relieved? Or sad? Or both. I guess it is a good thing because it will happen when it is supposed to happen, if you believe that everything has it's place and time. *hugs* I hope you are ok and not worrying or stressed now.
