I don't really give out many chances with me. It's a part of who I am and I don't think that it will ever change. I understand that sometimes a person will by no fault of thiers dissapoint me but the vast majority seems to be all on them. I judge as I expect myself to be judged. If I tell someone that I want to meet them and make plans to meet them I will do everything to keep my plans. I don't care if things that are more intersting come along I will do what I planned first. However I seem to notice that people use me as a if all else fails event. A few people that "want" to meet me talk big and then turn into clucking chickens. They in a few ways dissapoint me and then honestly I stop talking to them. To me it seems that there is no reason to pursue firendships with people who are always willing to blow you off becase they have a reason. I think I should move to an everyone gets one rule. You get to dissapoint me once and then don't expect me to talk to you. Well I've ranted enough |