the thoughts in my head
by *Ariel*

like argh, men are just such blah sometimes!

04/14/2015

I was having a really shit day yesterday and having one of those ugly days and i said to my partner im not in the mood can we just cuddle, he said yeah, then starts trying to do stuff again. and i say no...so then he wont even hug me or anything!!!

then today i get no texts from him (which i usually do) comes home shoves some flowers in my face and walks off and hasnt spoken to me since.

I just cant even start comprehending whats going on in his head...

Am i being blind? if im having a bad ugly day and i just want hugs is that a bad thing? for them to get in a mood with me and make me feel even worse?
to then not talk to me all day??

and why shove some flowers at me and not talk to me since being home?? can anyone see something i cant? should i appreciate the flowers if they come with the silent treatment?

Gah and people say woman are complicated....

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honestly i would have given the flowers back to him because of the silent treatment. But i'm like that, don't give me something and treat me terribly afterwards. They lose their meaning then.

I find lately men are pms'ing.

hope he snaps out of his mood hun

xx B

[xx B

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As someone coming from the other side of spurned advances, sometimes it bums us out and makes us feel unwanted/unattractive/unloved/not enough. His mood isnt justified, but there is reason for it and the flowers (to me, at least) say that he is sorry for being a turd about it but it doesnt make him feel any less turdy. Does that make sense? Anyway, you guys should talk about it. Dont get keep the silence going.

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I agree with kismet. He just felt rejected.. ya'll should talk it out.

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