I have to admit, it was difficult for me when I started coaching to practice how to create my confidence from scratch in areas I didn’t even know I wasn’t giving TLC to.
I remember thinking, "wait.....I am supposed to do what? I didn't reach my goal, this is shine & grind time baby, I can't just take a step back and reset... "
But that's exactly what I needed to do.
I was trying to take action left and right, evaluating what was working and what wasn't so that I could tackle it at a different angle.
When I started noticing what I was noticing, how my thoughts create my feelings, which drive my actions to get my results.. I saw myself going to the ACTION line so much more than my thoughts. I logically knew what came first but I kept trying to push through it.
Here's the deal, we get our results by our THOUGHTS not our action!! That's been the biggest transformation I had.
It's coming up on a year since I worked with my coach last Nov. So crazy!
Being able to recognize and let go of the thought, “it has to be perfect and it has to happen NOW”, changed everything.
It doesn't have to be perfect. I don't need to know "how", I just need to keep the faith and keep showing up as the woman I desire to become.
We create our reality. We are responsible for what we think and how we feel.. In essence, you're an artist and you're creating the life you desire, it's allowed to be messy. 💫
You don’t need to know the HOW or WHENs. It feels like we do because we're told we do from a young age, through school, by others, social media.. yadda yadda...We need to know where it's coming from, how we are going to tackle it, going back to our past to "borrow" evidence (that only hinders us from growing).
But what if you just chose to believe that it has always been possible for You, it's just been waiting for you to show up with the confidence and say "I'm Ready"? You don't need to know the HOW, you just have to have a desire to change and step up, being wiling to go for it.
By just having a desire to commit fully and go all in ---- You are aligning your desires with the world & position yourself to receive it.
xo
C