Yesterday someone from this site (named "Jamie Smith") found my boyfriend's facebook, and messaged him and sent him a link to one of my entries, now deleted. I would REALLY like to know WHO did this, and WHY?? Since what is it any of YOUR business to message my boyfriend and send him that link. Whoever did this, you are a pathetic excuse for a human being. I have not done ANYTHING bad to ANYONE on this site, so why the hell would you try to screw with my relationship? Too bad it won't work!! GET A LIFE!!

how on earth has someone done that? do you post your full name on your diary? are you facebook friends with anyone from bloop? because presumably you have a private facebook profile, and someone must be your friend on facebook to see your 'in a relationship with 'FULL NAME' section?

i'd say the more likely scenario is that your boyfriend found your bloop on his own, and wanted to confront you about it, but he didn't want to say that he had been snooping, so made up that someone from here messaged him about it.

He was at work when this happened and doesn't use the computer at his work.

he could have found it anytime, yo! days before he told you, even. have you ever posted links to yours and his facebooks on your bloop?

no, i have never done that. i've never said my boyfriend's name on here. I've always used his first initial, or just said "my bf"

well in that case, it would be impossible for anyone from bloop to find him on facebook, then. apart from the one person you have from bloop on your friends list. either it is that person, or he has found it himself.

WELL, SINCE THE PERSON GAVE INFORMATION TO YOUR BOYFRIEND ON FACEBOOK, THE PERSON MUST BE ON YOUR BOIF'S FRIENDS LIST, NO? AND SINCE THIS HASN'T AFFECTED YOUR RELATIONSHIP NEGATIVELY, YOU ARE FREE TO OPENLY ASK YOUR BOIF WHO THIS PERSON IS AND HOW HE KNOWS THEM. AND IF IT IS AN OPEN TRUSTING RELATIONSHIP, HE WILL TELL YOU. MUCH MORE EFFECTIVE THAN POSTING TO A BUNCH OF FORUM IDLERS WHO DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU! ;D

Actually he wouldn't have to be on the boyfriend's friends list to send him a message... You can send anyone messages without being friends with them, you just have to find them using the search bar or something.

If it happened when he was at work surely that means he was on his computer?

you're not the first person to have it happen. a friend of mine just left bloop for the same reason.

I had similar thing done to me, someone sent my Diary link to my Ex. She became a member and read a whole heap of my entries. I made a new diary because I couldn't even write on the forums. I also set it to Friends only. Now I only do Forums in this comic book Diary.
I believe that the person who did it was a friend of hers though, somehow found my name on a search or something I don't know. I found out because her father rang me up threatening to hurt me because she was upset (I was with someone new). He told me someone sent her the link. Rookie mistake on my part I guess. Should have been more careful with my details.

WTF! Who does that!
Sorry that someone has done that to you.

WELL, GOSH, THIS KIND OF THING IS ALWAYS A DANGER WHEN YOU POST PERSONAL INFO ON YOUR DIARY, YO. YOU CAN'T TRUST EVERYONE ON THE SITE TO TREAT YOUR PERSONAL INFO WITH RESPECT. IT'S NOT NICE, OF COURSE, BUT REALISTICALLY, BLOOP IS FULL OF CHILDISH PEOPLE, AND NOT EVERYONE WILL LIKE YOU, AND THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO GET PLEASURE OUT OF MEDDLING IN SUCH A WAY.

Unless you have compromised your relationship with what was in our entry why are you bothered? If you put enough information in your diary for a member here to know not only your boyfriends first name, but his surname and what he looks like, you are asking for trouble.

I haven't given out his name on my bloop diary. I haven't given out any information on bloop about what he looks like, or what his name is. I only have one person from bloop on my facebook, and she wouldn't do that.

Then I should think your bloop friend on facebook is telling lies or your boyfriend is.

WELL, WHAT IS YOUR SPECULATION ON HOW THIS HAPPENED, YO? WHAT OTHER PERSONAL INFO HAVE YOU GIVEN THAT MIGHT GIVE BLOOPERS AN IDEA OF HOW TO CONTACT YOUR BOIF? DO YOU TALK TO BLOOPERS ON MSN? DO THE BLOOPERS YOU TALK TO HAVE OTHER FRIENDS THAT THEY MIGHT HAVE TALKED TO? IS IT POSSIBLE THAT, SINCE YOU POST YOUR PIC PUBLICLY AND ALL, SOMEONE FROM YOUR REAL LIFE MIGHT HAVE FOUND YOU, IDENTIFIED YOU, AND PASSED ON INFO TO YOUR BOIF?

DID YOU DO A 'WHO'S VIEWED IT' CHECK BEFORE DELETING YOUR ENTRY? YOU'D BE BETTER OFF WRITING THIS POST IN YOUR DIARY THAN HERE - IF YOU HAVE A HARDCORE STALKER/HATER, THEY ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE READING YOUR DIARY THAN THE FORUMZ. BUT IF THEY ARE A HARDCORE HATER, I DOUBT THEY WILL LOSE ANY SLEEP OVER THE FACT THAT YOU ARE ANGRY WITH THEM - THEY WILL PROBABLY BE GLAD THAT THEY ELICITED A REACTION.

well, being that i can't find your full name anywhere on your diary, or any mention of your boyfriend's name, i'd say either the one person from bloop you have on your facebook did it, or your boyfriend found your bloop and did as big bad bot suggested.

maybe you shouldn't write things you don't want your boyfriend to know about in members or public entries.

I have NO clue on how this happened! I posted in entry in my diary already. I just don't know why someone would do this? I'm just so confused! I'm trying to forget about this, cos it hasn't effected my relationship. I'm so close to deleting my bloop over this.

like everyone has said, here are the 3 scenarios:

1. your boyfriend found your bloop himself. (have you ever shared a computer with him at all?)
2. someone from your real life found your bloop and showed him. (have you ever accessed bloop from a shared computer?)
3. the person you have on your bloop and facebook did this, or showed your facebook to someone else who did it.

WELL, I SEE YOUR DIARY IS FO, YO. SO LOGICALLY, IT MUST BE SOMEONE ON YOUR FRIENDS LIST. IF YOUR FRIENDS LIST REFLECTS YOUR FAVES LIST, WELL, I SEE YOUR FAVES LIST IS QUITE SMALL - IT INCLUDES A LOT OF GROUP/DRAMA DIARIES, BUT FEWER REAL PEOPLE. I DO NOTE THAT THE PERSON ON THE TOP OF YOUR FAVES LIST IS CALLED JAMIE. LIKE, ER, SHE WOULD BE THE MOST OBVIOUS FIRST SUSPECT HERE, YO.

I saw that, so I turned into a bit of a stalker, Jamie has ultrasound pictures which show her surname is not Smith.

I already asked her, and she doesn't even have a link to my facebook. I just put my diary on FO yesterday when this whole thing started.

AH - VERY WISE, YO. ALL PERSONAL STUFF SHOULD BE FO. AND THEN USE MO FOR MEMES AND DEBATES AND SILLY STUFF.

My bf wouldn't do something like this. He's not that childish. I always log out of my bloop after I'm done. None of my friends IRL know about my bloop. He was pissed when this person messaged him. He texted me and asked me if I knew a "Jamie Smith". But he's not mad at me, he's mad at this person. I changed all my privacy settings on my facebook, so that only my friends can see anything about me or even search me. From now on I'm going to be more careful of what I do or say. I don't need this drama in my life. I have more things to worry about than some jealous idiot trying to ruin my relationship.