I'm replying the whole thread.. What somepeople need to realize that being rude over the net is like being rude over the phone, except you can actually hear the rudness in the voice.
I've worked for a call center for over 3 years. I know when someone is having a bad day. At work if someone comes off rude to me, I simply try to reflect kindness BUT since it is over the phone, A LOT of those people are still rude.. So in my deffensive pattern I get fusterated and get a little rude back. Now online is bascially the same. Only that the words are written down. You can read a lot of peoples entries and get a feel for their writing style or whatever.

However being rude on the net is a lot easier cause noone can see your face, Just like noone can see my face at work over the phone and yet they still become rude.

Everyone has opinion and ever since bloop has been up or more and more youngins started coming to this diary.. and FAKES create diaries or whatever.. and mostly the DA diary .. drama and opinions rise up.. What some people need to do is just take it and laugh.. the DA diary is laughable.. why do any of you keep going to it? because it's funny cause your curious if there's going to be one about you or whatever.. If you don't like something that is said and someone doesn't like your opinion you shouldn't raise a fucking ticket just to prove that your "right" or whatever..

well its obvious you are talking about SOMETHING TOTALLY different. I never once mentioned what happened to Kel-sy in the discussion. I didnt intend on the discussion to be about her in general. I want to know how you think its okay to mistreat someone when you infact would not like to be treated that way! THAT is all I said! So you can take your ticket raising bs and shove it also. The ticket was put up because of CONCERN not to prove a point, and if you are pissed cuz she left, then get over it. SHE chose to leave. Not one time did I say you need to go. Not one time did I mention to Steve that she needed to be taken off of staff. I expressed CONCERN! Unlike what you idots seem to have which is not concern. You could care less about anyone other than yourselves, and that is pathetic! I am sorry you dont agree with what I did, your problem. I am sorry you feel that the diary was removed for wrong reasons, not my fault. You need to figure out where your anger issues are steming from and deal with that before you start taking crap out on others.

I wrote out a lengthy reply to this forum... and then I realized that no matter what I say, or do... I'm not going to change what you or anyone else thinks.

KNOWING THE MEANING OF A STATEMENT DOESN'T AUTOMATICALLY MEAN THAT A PERSON CHOOSES TO LIVE ACCORDING TO ITS VALUES. I KNOW THE MEANING OF 'CHILDREN SHOULD BE SEEN AND NOT HEARD' BUT I DON'T NECESSARILY AGREE WITH IT.

ONLINE DIARIES ARE A BIT DIFFERENT FROM REAL LIFE, YO. IN REAL LIFE, PEOPLE DON'T TEND TO BROADCAST THE PRIVATE DETAILS OF THEIR LIVES TO A BUNCH OF STRANGERS AND THEN INVITE PUBLIC FEEDBACK. IF THEY DID, I SUSPECT SOME RESPONSES MIGHT BE QUITE SIMILAR!

THE MOST AMUSING THING I FIND ON BLOOP, WHICH I'VE NEVER SEEN HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE (WELL, OUTSIDE OF ELEMENTARY SCHOOL!) IS THAT A COMPLETE STRANGER WILL TURN UP ON YOUR DIARY AND LEAVE AN 'I DON'T LIKE YOU' COMMENT. SO FUNNY, YO! LIKE, WHAT SORT OF RESPONSE ARE THEY EXPECTING? OF COURSE NOT EVERYONE LIKES EVERYONE - BUT SO WHAT, YO? I DON'T LIKE BRUSSEL SPROUTS, BUT I DON'T MAKE A POINT OF APPROACHING THEM AND INFORMING THEM OF THE FACT!

Thank you Estella and Lady Pagan. You two are the ONLY ones who really put forth the effort to talk about the topic and not something totally different. I do agree that things are different online than IRL. BTW I LOVE Brussel Sprouts!

THAT'S BECAUSE ME AND LADY PAGAN ARE OLD AND WISE, YO! WE ARE THE ELDERS TO WHOM STEVE REFERS IN HIS MAIN PAGE BLURB, YO! KEEPING ALL THE NAUGHTY TEENS IN LINE!

yep...ye oldies ;)

I think everyone that replied, Anonymous Source apparently excluded, put forth effort into talking about the topic...

Jesus Christ, are you done? This is like the 4th time you've mentioned me without actually replying to me. If you want to discuss something, lets discuss something, because it looks like you're not contributing much to the conversation yourself, baby cakes.

Actually, when I replied, I replied directly to your posts, not to the main thread. This time I replied to Appreciate's latest comment, and my usage of the word "apparently" was to refer to her obvious exclusion of you. But you apparently didn't catch that. :P

I really dislike this type of forum. It's extremely difficult to follow who's replying to what.

I really dislike this type of forum. It's extremely difficult to follow who's replying to what.

You're right, I apologize.

Much appreciated, thankee. It sucks having to explain yourself at every turn because no one knows who the hell you're talking to. lol

I've said it once and I'll say it again. All posts should be organized chronologically.

you are right....and I apologize if I made it out that I didnt think that anyone else did. Anon can take a flying leap for all I care. The statements made from that person are null and void for all I care because this person is blinded by something. I would love to live in a world where I can be so judgemental and not give a crap if I put others down. Honestly, that has got to totally suck though. To not have feelings. Hmmmmm anyhow thanks for that

What you seem to have an issue with is that I haven't had a lot of restraint in anything I've said in these past three forums, at least as much restraint as others had. I mean, you sat here and told me that I essentially live for putting others down, and you don't even know my first name, let alone have a right to make that kind of judgment about me.

Since the first time you've posted it's been nothing but "blah blah Anon has no feelings, he puts others down" - but I've yet you see you specifically point out any non-truths in what I've said.

My base point in everything I've said in the past couple of weeks is: Everyone, including staff, should have a right to voice their opinions.

If you disagree then tell me why. But these "hurr durr stop putting me down" comments are going to get you nowhere.

GOSH, LADY MOD CHRIS, YO - YOU ARE AN ADULT LADY NOW AND YOU TOTALLY NEED TO LEARN TO EXERCISE SELF-RESTRAINT! TIE YOURSELF UP, YO, AND STAND ON YOUR HEAD IN THE CORNER! TAKE A LESSON FROM THE GREATLY RESTRAINED LADY PUCK, YO! YOU DON'T SEE ME SAYING NAUGHTY UNRESTRAINED THINGZ! ;D NO ONE IS A-HATING ON PUCKY, YO! HURR DURR! (GOSH, I LIKE THAT, YO - WHAT DOES IT MEAN?)

It is the politically incorrect sound someone makes when they're mentally ill.

haha i've never seen it typed out, nor defined quite like that before. nicely done.

GOSH, YO! REALLY? I NEVER HEARD THAT SOUND WHEN I WORKED IN MENTAL HEALTH, ALAS! I HEARD THINGS MORE LIKE 'I AM MADONNA' AND 'I AM AN ASTRONAUT' AND 'INVISIBLE PEOPLE ARE PUTTING CONTACT LENSES INTO MY EYES' AND 'YOU ARE SECRETLY A DRUG DEALING WHORE AND THOSE SWEETS YOU ARE EATING ARE HARD DRUGS AND I'M GOING TO CALL THE POLICE ON YOU'. GUESS MY NAUGHTY PATIENTS WERE TOO POLITICALLY CORRECT, YO! ;D

Would have been kind of weird if I had said, "I am Madonna stop putting me down"

NOT AT ALL - IT WOULD DOVETAIL NICELY WITH THE NEW LADY-NESS OF YOUR NAME! ;D

Maybe the Golden Rule works in make-believe land with all the rainbows and leprechauns and chocolate waterfalls, but here, on Earth, people do not follow that rule. So you might think you're considerate, but when was the last time you actually gave a shit about someone other than yourself, such as letting someone else have a parking spot, or waiting your turn, or letting someone else go ahead of you in the shopping market, or one of a million things that are just "randomly nice." How often do you give your seat up, or offer to help a stranger carry groceries, or open doors for people, or anything even remotely resembling being kind?

Yeah, maybe once in a while. But most of you are simply looking out for number one. Most of you are inconsiderate pricks that just pretend to give a shit about other people.

I treat people how I think they deserve to be treated, not how I want them to treat me. I'm not going to go out of my way to be courteous to some asshole, I'm going to give him the finger and call him a dickhead.