Tell us all about the man in your life!!!

* How, when, & where did you meet him? I met him officially at my old job. He usually hung out at mine and my sister's hangouts.
* Was it love at first sight?Lust, then love.
* What does he look like? Tall, thin, wears glasses, beautiful brown eyes...
* Is he older or younger than you? 7 years older than him.
* What do you love about him? Everything to be truthful. He is kind, considerate for the most part and just all around awesome.
* How would you describe your relationship with him? Good, we never really fight, we have a pretty mellow relationship.
* Would you change anything about him if you could? He shows no emotion, anger, sadness, it doesn't exist. I would like if he showed some sort of emotions.
* What are his strengths? How strong he is. When I'm stressed or crying, he's there, he listens to what I say. And he's an awesome dad.
* What are his flaws? He never asserts himself, with me or at work. It's frustrating sometimes.
* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple? Nope, he takes my feelings into consideration. If we have issues, we talk.
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him? We've never really had a big fight.
* What is your favorite memory of him? Him holding our daughter for the first time. It was a beautiful moment.
* Do you share a song together? 3 songs actually. "I Belong To You" -Muse, "Endlessly"-Muse and "Unintended"-Muse We're MUSE fans.
* Is he the "one"? Yes, absolutely, without a single doubt, yes.
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man? Well, my perfect man, in my mind had blue eyes...he has brown, but I look past that-lol. He measures up in every way.

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
I met him at a mutual friend's house back in early June of 2007
* Was it love at first sight?
Not really, lol
* What does he look like?
Really tall and muscular with shaggy curly brown hair, a big bushy brown beard and big brown eyes. :)
* Is he older or younger than you?
Younger by exactly a month
* What do you love about him?
How kind and understanding and patient he is. And how he challenges me on so many things, like political debates for example
* How would you describe your relationship with him?
Comfortable! It's emotional, but trusting as well. It's wonderful.
* Would you change anything about him if you could?
I'd change the fact that he dropped out of school
* What are his strengths?
He's a very DIY kind of guy, and does it well! Very smart electrician too.
* What are his flaws?
He's a white privileged male...doesn't *quite* understand much beyond that.
* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
Nah he's never hurt me. But i've tried breaking up with him at least a handful of times, but we've always stayed together because we realize how much we love each other. We communicated, which is the key to really working out a relationship.
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
Nah. Can't have it anyways considering we're long distance.
* What is your favorite memory of him?
I can't really pick one...probably when we went on this hike once and it was a beautiful day and we found a small waterfall and just stayed there for a while just hugging and not talking.
* Do you share a song together?
I believe in a thing called love by The Darkness, lol
* Is he the "one"?
Who knows, i'm only 21
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
He's actually pretty damn close.

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
-i 1st met him in winter intersession in high school. we would always pick on each other.
* Was it love at first sight?
-no b.c like I said we didn't even like each other.
* What does he look like?
- he's half white & half mexican. he's 5'11 and I wanna say like 250lbs..
* Is he older or younger than you?
-he is younger than me by like 5 months
* What do you love about him?
-i love the way he takes care of our family. he is hard worker & he loves our kids to death!
* How would you describe your relationship with him?
-we r both pain in the asses to each other. we agree to disagree. but when it comes down to it, we love each other.
* Would you change anything about him if you could?
-wow.. um that he could undertsand me more & not think that everything is gonna result in an arguement.
* What are his strengths?
-that he is a hard ass worker, he will do anything for his kids, he cares for his family & he is super smart.
* What are his flaws?
-that he loves video games, sometimes he let's his job get to his head, he's stubborn & he's always tired!!
* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy?
-yeah he cheated on me in o6.. which always brings back bad memories... so that's all I'm sayin out this.
How did you get through it as a couple?
-we got separated.. for 11 months & then he realized he lost everything & worked really hard to get us back.
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
-yes but he & I r really busy so we're trying to do our own type of counceling.
* What is your favorite memory of him?
-i have a lot. one is when we had our daughter. also when I 1st went over his house & he was soo romantic.. now I'm getting all emo!!
* Do you share a song together?
-yes we have many..
* Is he the "one"?
-well yeah.. we've been married for 5 years.
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
-there is no such thing as a perfect man!!

Gosh yo! This is quite unfair!! Why is there no thread for me to talk about my womenz!!! :(

I concurr. What about our Wootmens

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
- We met online back in January 2007

* Was it love at first sight?
- No took 3 months to know it was love

* What does he look like?
-Like a normal guy with brown hair and some sexy green eyes

* Is he older or younger than you?
- Older by 2 years

* What do you love about him?
- Hmm good question, I love his cuddles the way he can make me mad and in a few seconds make me smile

* How would you describe your relationship with him?
- Rocky but amazing.

* Would you change anything about him if you could?
-Just his feet. LMFAO!

* What are his strengths?
He is a leader there isn't much wrong with that.

* What are his flaws?
-He don't pick up his Army crap!

* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
-Nope i don't think so.

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
-Nope we talk enough so i don't think it is needed

* What is your favorite memory of him?
- Wedding day for sure and him graduating from AIT as an MP

* Do you share a song together?
-uh not that i know of. He told me when he hears Love song by 311 he thinks of me.

* Is he the "one"?
- I think so

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
- He isn't the ideal one but he is so close i can deal with that.

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
--that's very long and complicated, but long story short, we were both with other people and met through them. haha.
* Was it love at first sight?
--i don't know about love at first sight but there was something. from the moment we met there was something.
* What does he look like?
--gorgeous =). he's six foot one. and he has dark brown hair and big brown eyes and he's got a pretty nice body too haha.
* Is he older or younger than you?
--a year and a half older.
* What do you love about him?
--he's the sweetest most caring person i've ever met.. he's sensitive to what i'm feeling even when i don't tell him. he tells me that i'm beautiful even when i don't feel like i am. he's pretty much the greatest guy ever =).
* How would you describe your relationship with him?
--comfortable at times. at others it's exhilarating. we work hard to keep the romance alive. but we drive each other nuts sometimes.
* Would you change anything about him if you could?
--i'd make him like to do the dishes maybe. haha.
* What are his strengths?
--he's very honest. he knows me well enough to read into what i'm not telling him.
* What are his flaws?
--he's as stubborn as i am. he's very absent-minded. and he's late for everything.
* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
--there was one huge fight. but it didn't really put us in jeopardy. we both just knew that we would talk our way through it like we always do.
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
--haha no. we're both pretty good at saying what needs to be said and listening to what needs to be heard without someone telling us to.
* What is your favorite memory of him?
--the night he proposed =).
* Do you share a song together?
--yes. 'unbelievable' by josh gracin.
* Is he the "one"?
--yes.
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
i don't have ideas of a perfect man. i can't expect him to be perfect if i'm not.

I like reading these! they're cute :D

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
I ment him through a friend a few weeks ago. It was a blind date, and a really good date :]

* Was it love at first sight?
Not quite.

* What does he look like?
About 6 ft, brown hair, blue eyes, glasses, kind of skinny and nerdy in the cutest way.

* Is he older or younger than you?
Older. He's 22, I'm 20.

* What do you love about him?
Everything, really. His smile, his eyes, the way he half tickles me when I tease him.

* How would you describe your relationship with him?
It's new, but so good.

* Would you change anything about him if you could?
Not really.

* What are his strengths?
He's smart, funny, has a good job, takes care of himself, sticks to his opinion.

* What are his flaws?
He's a little anal. Really really clean.

* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
Nothing like that has happened yet.

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
No big fights yet!

* What is your favorite memory of him?
I'm not sure :P

* Do you share a song together?
Not yet. Though "I'm yours" by Jason Mraz is on it's way to being one :]

* Is he the "one"?
I don't know. We're young and just started this whole thing.

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
So far.. He's perfect in just about every way I could ask for.

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
We've met a few times. First was when I was 14 and wouldn't let him have a packet of cigarettes for 5 cents less, the next was talking to a friend in Maddington, and finally when me and my friend prank called him.

* Was it love at first sight?
No, I don't believe in love at first sight

* What does he look like?
Um bout 6ft 1 or 2, brown eyes, shaved brown hair, tattoos on his arms, cuddly and muscly at the same time

* Is he older or younger than you?
2 years older although I thought he was like 18 when I was 14

* What do you love about him?
His personality mainly

* How would you describe your relationship with him?
Goes from strength to strength, and has never been better

* Would you change anything about him if you could?
Nah not really, maybe his spending lol!

* What are his strengths?
He's kind, generous, loving, cares about mme and his family and he knows how to make me laugh

* What are his flaws?
If we have a fight, he doesn't understand to give me space and it tends to make it worse He's getting better though

* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
I am against drugs, my next door neighbour died of an overdose when I was 12, and the worst thing he did was hid the fact he took drugs. I caught him out because of a message on his phone, he promised me he wouldn't do drugs unless he let me know about it first and did them again and nobody knew what was wrong with him. I packed my bags as if I was going to leave and it was the wake up call he needed. He hasn't done drugs i haven't agreed to since.

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
I'm scared of counsellors so no

* What is your favorite memory of him?
In Albany earlier this year, he was sticking cuttlefish into his thong, like every bit he saw he had to stick in there. It still cracks me up

* Do you share a song together?
Not really no, we had our wedding dance to White Wedding and whenever we hear that we're like AWWWW REMEMBER?

* Is he the "one"?
Yes

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
I never envisioned the perfect man

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
The first time i was introduced to him was at his uncles coffee shop when i was working there

* Was it love at first sight?
No... i didnt even remember the first few times we talked and everything, till we had a long convo one day and when everyone left the coffee shop he wrote his number on a piece of paper and gave it to me and told me to call him *i still have the paper*

* What does he look like?
6' blonde hair, blue eyes, baby face, with a goatee

* Is he older or younger than you?
13 years older... ha ha

* What do you love about him?
his outlook on life, and how he can find the best in everything and everyone, the way he kisses my forehead, the way he tells stories, the way he shows me off to the world, the way he is with my son... pretty much everything

* How would you describe your relationship with him?
amazing

* Would you change anything about him if you could?
nope

* What are his strengths?
hes smart, and sweet, and cares about things, hes mature but still has fun, i can keep going lol

* What are his flaws?
when hes tired he gets cranky

* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
nope

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
no

* What is your favorite memory of him?
the first night we hung out

* Do you share a song together?
yeah .. god bless the broken road by rascal flatts, cause we have both been through some crap and if it werent for the situations we were in bringing us to where we were, we never would have met.

* Is he the "one"?
Yes i think so

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
i dont have a perfect man dream, so he is pretty much it

Ah - this thread should really be entitled 'Ladies who are in a relationship with a man!!! Spill it!!!' Like, ladies who are singletons, lesbians and asexuals can't join in the spillage.

Lesbians can reply! Just change it to "her"! Asexuals could always write about themselves... ;)

Okay, okay. Since everyone else is doing it! ;)

* How, when, & where did you meet him? Well, I basically stalked him for 6 months before we ever talked. I used to go skating EVERY Thursday because I knew he'd be there. I told my friend that I thought he was cute, and she gave me 3 weeks to talk to him. On the third week she said "Are you going to talk to him?" and I said "No, I don't think so..." I turned to her and she was gone. I scanned the rink, and of course she went RIGHT to him. He came & introduced himself later that night. That was January 26th of this year. That night my same friend was driving on the freeway and saw his car! She text me saying they're driving near each other on the freeway. I said "Get me his number!" and she said "Uh, we're driving." I said "Take one for the team!" Next thing I know I had his number. Good friend right there.
* Was it love at first sight? No, but I definitely knew something was different about him.
* What does he look like? He's 6'2", blondish orangish hair, 200lbs, blue eyes, and he has a Harry Potter scar on his left cheek.
* Is he older or younger than you? Older, he's 27 and I'm 21.
* What do you love about him? He's very caring and very sweet. He knows when to let me rant and when to have me stop. He is considerate and passionate.
* How would you describe your relationship with him? It is rapid! We got serious pretty quickly. Now we're taking things slower and not rushing into anything we're not ready for! We get along 95% of the time. The other 5% we bicker, but we still care about each other.
* Would you change anything about him if you could? Nope.
* What are his strengths? He's stubborn which is a good thing, and he's very strong-willed.
* What are his flaws? He's stubborn and very strong-willed. ;)
* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple? Neither, really. We've had our fights but they were stupid and not important.
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him? Not necessary!
* What is your favorite memory of him? The first night we met. I already told most of the story, but I text him right after saying "Hey! It's Karissa. Do I qualify as a stalker yet?" and he said "No, it's flattering. How are you gorgeous?" That was it. :)
* Do you share a song together? Nope.
* Is he the "one"? We'll see!
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man? I've never had an idea of a perfect man. I've been let down by the men in my life (father, step father, brothers (minus one), uncles, etc.) so I really didn't have anything to compare him to. He takes out the trash for my mom and he keeps a smile on my face... so he's perfect for me.

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
We met almost 5 years ago at his parents house. Our mothers are best friends and we were having Thanksgiving over at their house. Flash forward 4 years and I contacted him on MySpace to tell him I was sorry his Fiance' had broken up with him and to chat

* Was it love at first sight?
I don't believe in love at first site but the second time we met I couldn't get him off my mind. I HAD to see him more

* What does he look like?
He's got brownish hair, blue eyes (with a tint of green/grey), he's tall, nicely built, and he's got this silly gap in his front teeth. His ear is pierced along with his tongue :)

* Is he older or younger than you?
He's four and a half years older then me (I'm 19, he's 24)...SOON TO BE 20 WOOOOO

* What do you love about him?
He loves my daughter and he always manages to make me smile

* How would you describe your relationship with him?
It's pretty relaxed. We rarely fight, we're pretty good at keeping the communication lines open, and I'd say we treat each other exactly how we should be treated.

* Would you change anything about him if you could?
I would love to play with his mouth once I'm done with dental school teehee, but otherwise no. I like him how he is.

* What are his strengths?
He's a firm believer in Christ, what else matters?

* What are his flaws?
If he's got 'em, I can't see 'em

* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
Yes, and I came very close to ending the entire relationship. It takes a long time to build up trust, and only seconds to destory it.
We talked it though, once again keeping those communication lines open. I would have been miserable without him

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
No, other then premarital counseling there isn't anything a counselor could tell me that we can't do ourselves

* What is your favorite memory of him?
Our first Valentines day, he was totally romantic :)

* Do you share a song together?
Umm...only the Mighty Boush song from the show...on adult swim...yeah...it was catchy....shut up

* Is he the "one"?
We'll see

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
He's pretty much all I could ask for

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
We met in 2004 because we both worked at Wendy's lol
* Was it love at first sight?
No, I didn't pay much mind to him at first. He was just another new employee.
* What does he look like?
5 10ish, brown hair and eyes, beard, big and burly ;D, tattoos
* Is he older or younger than you?
Same age, 3 months older really
* What do you love about him?
His humor, his dedication, the way he thinks about the world. We share the same morals and beliefs that that is really important to me.
* How would you describe your relationship with him?
Great? lol. We're engaged and going strong
* Would you change anything about him if you could?
I might change some things, but it would be for his benefit, not my own
* What are his strengths?
He'd do anything for me, he can make me laugh about anything even if I really don't want to, he stands up for people who need it. He's trustworthy, he's sweet.
* What are his flaws?
He's got a couple, don't we all? I do lol.
* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
No. I made a decision a couple months ago without discussing it with him that put us in a really bad spot, but we eventually got over it through discussing the situation and learning from our mistakes
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
No
* What is your favorite memory of him?
Random nights from when we first started hanging out. We'd just sit in his car and talk for hours and hours and hours
* Do you share a song together?
We used to laugh about how much "Swing Life Away" by Rise Against represented us, but I wouldn't call it 'our song' because that is corny :-p
* Is he the "one"?
No doubt
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
I don't have an idea of the perfect man because there is no such thing, but he is certainly perfect for me

* How, when, & where did you meet him?

I met him through a friend on facebook actually XD we started talking through status comments and then started talking on AIM and on the phone. All my friends told me he was a good guy and i should give him a chance, so i did

* Was it love at first sight?

I saw him, and my heart just soared...if it wasn't love at first sight, it was damn close

* What does he look like?

He is 6'4'', average build, hazel/green eyes, facial hair, glasses

* Is he older or younger than you?

he is older, by 3 years

* What do you love about him?

just...everything...his patience...his caring nature...his humor...his intelligence....

* How would you describe your relationship with him?

simply wonderful. we fit together like a glove

* Would you change anything about him if you could?

not at all! hes amazing just the way he is and i accept him flaws and all

* What are his strengths?

he is very bright, he is patient, he is loving, he is strong, he always knows how to make me smile and he can fix computers

* What are his flaws?

he is quite lazy XD and is always late to things.

* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?

nope, things are pretty smooth so far

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?

nope, we havent had a really huge fight yet, just little tiffs

* What is your favorite memory of him?

our first date...it was so sweet, innocent, and magical

* Do you share a song together?

nah, not really


* Is he the "one"?

i hope so.


* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?


he is perfect for me, he is my lion, my home, my partner, my lover, my friend and i hope nothing changes

* How, when, & where did you meet him?
We met in 2005 first online then at Dairy Queen at lunch because my best friend's boyfriend and him were friends

* Was it love at first sight?
Basically.

* What does he look like?
6", skinny ish, dark hair, dark eyes, metal guy

* Is he older or younger than you?
he is 23 days younger

* What do you love about him?
He loves me for who I am. Hes sweet and romantic. We can be silly together and laugh together

* How would you describe your relationship with him?
Right now, its ehhhh

* Would you change anything about him if you could?
Less angry metal dude.

* What are his strengths?
Hes pretty smart

* What are his flaws?
Hes stubborn

* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
Yeah. Right now that happening, I'll update when I know whats going on

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
No

* What is your favorite memory of him?
Our trip to Niagara Falls

* Do you share a song together?
"Nothing Else Matters"- Metallica

* Is he the "one"?
Yes

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
I never had an idea of a perfect man!

how, when, and where did you meet him?
i was 16, he was 18. we met in a pitch black park near my house.

was it love at first sight?
hardly. i couldn't see him. lol. no, we didn't start dating till about two years later.

what does he look like?


is he older or younger than you?
he's 26, so older.

what do you love about him?
he's very easy going. not much phases him. we have the same humour.

how would you describe your relationship with him?
recently, shakey. but we're better now.

would you change anything about him if you could?
i'd perhaps like it if he would stick to decisions he makes and was a bit less lazy.

what are his strengths?
he's a good leader, he's calm, helpful.

what are his flaws?
lazy, never sticks to decisions, very very forgetful.

has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? how did you get through it as a couple?
we broke up two weeks ago, which turned out to be a hugely retarded idea because we were miserable without each other. we got back together now. all good.

have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
we don't really fight much. people go to counselling for more than just fights though.

what is your favorite memory of him?
being so happy we couldn't stop laughing at a hotel.

do you share a song together?
not really. for a while "dry your eyes" by the streets was sort of our song, back when we were seeing each other when we "shouldn't" have been.

is he the "one"?
well, i'm not sure if i really believe in that, but he's definitely the one for now as long as he doesn't leave me or die.

how does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
i don't really have an idea of "perfect" because it doesn't exist. he's fine though.

* How, when, & where did you meet him? i met him through a friend in january of 2008. we first met irl in march, though. :]
* Was it love at first sight? i don't believe in that.
* What does he look like? beautiful. brown hair, fluffy beard with ginger accents, big brownish green eyes that look like honey in the sun, 5"11, built like a pear.
* Is he older or younger than you? he is younger by four months.
* What do you love about him? everything including weaknesses, flaws, and even those days where breath smells horrid. HUMOUR. i love laughing with him. we're always laughing, joking, carrying on.
* How would you describe your relationship with him? growing more everyday..
* Would you change anything about him if you could? i love who he is! i don't think i would change anything. the way we live fits.
* What are his strengths? confidence, smarts, pretty puppy eyes. ;]
* What are his flaws? quick temper! yet it leaves just as quick as it comes. and uhh, being punctual.
* Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
i'm sure we hurt each other sometimes, but nothing that we can't get through. it's normal and it should be that way. there was something that happened a long time ago [meaning last december..] but we just talked through it and held on tight. now when we look back we think it's just silly.
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him? ...no. we're not that couple that fights a lot or even has big fights. small things, but we rather talk. talk talk talk.
* What is your favorite memory of him? everyday that passes.
* Do you share a song together? toothpaste kisses by the maccabees
* Is he the "one"? i would like to think he is something like that but we choose "if's" over "when's" but we.."hope" and i really do.
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man? i never had an idea of a perfect man. i know we "fit" and that's about as perfect as it can get.