I did the second link wrong. It should say 'Babyandkidallergies.com'

Again, it's a never ending circle. Drop it period.

I'd be glad to.

But now I'm attention whore because I want answers. Hmmm go figure.

i hope you bring condoms when you visit this boy. you are too immature for one child.

:) i'm loaded.

Someone shouldn't be having sex with someone they've never met anyway.

Your not going to get the answers you want......

someone should just have this damn forum deleted. its pointless!

Alright. So, I've been reading up on all this drama for a while. Read the diary, read the forum, read the crap in the daily announcements.
After thinking about it for a while, I've come up with somewhat of an opinion on the situation:

Mom@19 or whatever your diary name is, the people who are commenting you about your daughter are just concerned for her. Thanks to you drawing all this shit out, throwing fits, and starting forums, everyone and their damn vibrator knows about you and your daughter's situation. You sit there and argue with people on the most ridiculous crap ever, and then whine about the advice you're getting, or not getting.

People are giving you ideas. Options. Hey! Here's an idea, open your damn eyes and pay attention! Some of the people here know what they're talking about! They're parents! They're doctors! They've dealt with the SAME SHIT AS YOU! So stop being so damn proud and either A, take some of the ideas and advice to heart, or at least talk to your daughter's doctor about them. Option B is to ignore everyone on this site, go on Friends Only, and keep bitching and moaning about how people treat you. Or, you could go with C, stay on Members Only (or whatever you're on), keep crying, and keep throwing fits.

I don't see any but C happening, because it seems like you're really enjoying this attention.

I'm sorry, but this situation has more drama than half the shows on television, and twice as much publicity.

*applauds*

I do take advice. Usually from my mother. Not from someone I know nothing about:)

And whether I want to keep crying, throwing fits, and "drawing" this shit out...then I will...because everyone wanted to make a big fucking deal about it, so I'm just going along with it:D

How about taking it from your DOCTOR?!? No offence to your mum (and I'm sure much of her other advice is very good), but she doesn't have a medical degree, does she? And if she's telling you feeding solids under 4 months is safe then her advice is incorrect and dangerous.

The mother who also believes smoking around a pregnant woman and a baby 24 hours a day is perfectly healthy.

i smoke, but we dont smoke around my baby, k thanks

You said it yourself that your mother smokes in the house, the smoke doesn't suddenly vanish once the cigarette has been put out, every breath your baby takes, she is smoking.

ever since charity was born we smoke outside. mom smoked INSIDE while i was pregnant

"mom smoked INSIDE while i was pregnant"

whatever you were breathing in when you were pregnant Charity was breathing in as well. Whatever goes into your body, whether by mouth or nose, the baby gets as well. Just pointing that out. And yes, some miscreant, I agree, this has become incredibly stupid. I don't know why this controversy hasn't ended as of yet.

Oh my... and THAT is who you're taking advice from?? Seriously... if your mother smoked around you when pregnant, she's not the one to be taking medical advice from.

lol.

this has become so incredibly stupid.

i'll try again..

*ahem*

"Is this the real life -- Is this just fantasy?"

"Caught in a landslide -- no escape from reality!"

"Open your eyes -- look up to the skies and see!"

"I'm just a poor boy! I need no sympathy!!"

er, except I'm a girl, yo.

"Because Im easy come, easy go -- A little high, little low..!"

"Any way the wind blows, doesn't really matter to meeeee. To me."

"Mama..! Just killed a man! -- Put a gun up to his head, pulled my trigger, now he's dead!"