i've been googling all night but i can't find what i'm looking for, so this is a long shot but maybe someone can help!
theres a poem somewhere out there about going into labour with a second child, and feeling guilty etc about how their lives will change.
i've found the 'loving two' poem and thats not the one (but its very sweet too!)

has anyone got any idea what i'm on about? i don't think i could have just imagined it! lol! but i don't think its the loving two poem which is everywhere.

I don't know, but I'd be interested to read it!