Kids aren't for everyone. Certainly not for me. Kids cost around 200,000 dollars to raise from birth till age 18, on top of that you have to worry about underage drinking, drugs, STDS, pregnancies. Bullies, jail. or being anchored down if you wanna go on a weeks vacation to somewhere nice. Granted, they are a gift to all of us, in some shape or form. God gives them to us to teach them about Jesus and such, but it's too much responsibility for some, that's why many end in foster care, dead on the street, or starving in other countries. Not having a kid isn't exactly so bad.