just got off the phone with my grandmother
i dont understand it...my dad is tryin to buy you a house in a 55+ community, he wants you to live the rest of your life happily and without worry fincaialy, and you dont want to?
you're happy where you are, even though you can see that its killing your husband [[my grandfather]] inside to stay there? he is not happy being there, by himself with just you and your crazy sister [my great aunt] for company?
if you loved somebody wouldnt you make the sacrifice of something for them? even though you dont do much now, and would be able to do the same at the new house...i dont understand...i feel for her because i know shes not physically capable of doing alot now, but if she would work on it she could do it...
and shes worrying about the gated restricted community saying she couldnt put a ramp up to help her get into her house? ITS A 55+ COMMUNITY WHY WOULD THEY EVEN SAY THAT! if you asked im sure they wouldnt care!! and that what if she wanted to string christmas lights? and wasnt aloud, when would they not aloud you to celebrate a holiday?? its ridiculous
im stressing out because im stuck in this, i see my fathers side to all of this, but i dont understand why people are making such a big deal about my father trying to help out my grandparents.....then on top of it all ive got my own shit to worry about, i cant take it sometimes. my boyfriend seriously needs to step it up a bit on this whole job thing. i understand its harder on him to find a job because of the lack of liscense and the lack of car and me being his transporation and his track record doesn't help him at all...but still!! im so pissed that i have to pay for all of the expenses to get his liscense back because he went and spent the money his mom sent down for him to take the drug&alcohol class and i udnerstand that he doesnt have a means to make money right now, but still dont go blow your money fo mj when we need it for other stuff.....makes me wonder how things would be finacially if we lived outside of my parents house..whats more imporant you know?
i dont mind helping him out, i really dont, but i do mind bein the one to work 40hours and my money being spent on something that should have already been paid for........
im so annoyed. things need to change quick or im going to snap&we are going to go right back to fighting every day..... |
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