Question #1
There comes a time in any relationship where the girl realizes that there is nothing in the world that could make her happier than seeing her boyfriend happy. It may take longer for some girls to realize this than others but for some it comes quite quickly. I am happy to say I've been there for some time now and it has actually just hit me that I feel that way. There is nothing more I want for him other than to be happy.
Now, there is a reason as to why I'm writing this out. I have had some of my guy friends ask me "Doesn't it bother you that he does this/that?" The answer is simple...no. There may be some things that girls don't want their boyfriends doing, but those things are a whole different story. Once they are given this answer, I then get the question of why. So, here in this entry, in this little empty space, I will answer your question with why I don't mind those things. ANY OTHER GIRLS WHO FEEL LIKE THEY WANT TO INCLUDE THEIR INPUT, EITHER COMMENT OR MESSAGE ME. I THINK I AM GOING TO DO A RESPONSE ENTRY TO THIS =]
TO THE GUYS:
Think about this.....your girlfriend buys you a not-so-great gift. What do you do? You act like you like the gift because it makes her happy and that is all you want to see. Girls do the same thing. Not always, but if they want you to have fun and be happy then they just might. There are some girls who are all too controlling. But the majority of us just want you guys to be you and have a good time. So when we tell you that it is cool with us if you hang out with "the guys" and we say "yeah its cool," its okay to ask once or twice if we're sure, but any more than that and you're overdoing it. If you guys weren't who you really were, do you think we would still be with you? More than anything, we love to see you happy. When you are happy and around us, you can make us laugh even if we don't want to smile. Keeping you happy is pretty much what we do best.
Okay so there is a very short take on this subject. I actually have to run to the store so I will write some more later. If there are any other topics or questions anyone wants an opinion on, message me. I will make a post and I promise to keep your identity secret (lol).
thanks guys!
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