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Because of you, my dreams came true
by Miss Katie Marie

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[26] The most important letter i have ever sent

01/27/2010

The letter that could change my life
Hello fellow bloopers,

jeez my life is like one big soap opera. But to tell the truth iv know about this story line since last may and its taken me all this time to actually do something about it. Well i wont give you full details because it is kind of personal.

Well all my life i have known i have a bioloigical father out there somewhere and that he has not seen me since i was 2. In may i found out he is in jail, i wont say what for though. Obivsouly its something bad. Well a year ago he wrote to my mum telling her that he was in jail and thought he needed to tell her in case i ever wanted to look for him. The thing is he wrote to our old address in scotland, and we know the people who live in our old house so they sent it to my mum. It was from My dad. She never told me. Instead i went searching for him on my own accord, signing up to family tree websites and evrything i could think of, then suddenly it hit me!

Search his name and see if he has a facebook page! i googled him but no facebook page, just bbc news pages. I found a picture of him, i dont look like him, but i do have his lips. Funny thing to notice huh?

So its taken me all this time to post the letter, and i have done it!!! Now its the waiting game. I cant belive this guy rotting in jail is my dad. But that dosent make me, me. Im my own person and i have lived without him for 22 years, i can do 22 more. I secretly hope he writes back, no matter what he has done, i need to know about him.

Keep you updated,

Katie Marie


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I have experianced a VERY similar thing. My father was gone when I was 2, moved around state to state, ended up in jail. I found him through online searches (my space actually). I realized right away we have the same nose. I still haven't 'spoken' to him becaue of other complications. Let me know if you need to vent.

[StrawberyGlobug|0 likes] [|reply]

A friend of mine had a situation somewhat like that.
-brent

[me brent, you notStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I had a similar situation minus the jail time. My 'father' was out of my life until I was 6 and realized I had a different last name than my 'dad'. Mom then revealed that my dad wasn't my father and helped me to get in touch with him. He was in and out of my life popping up only to give (crappy) gifts around holidays. Turns out, he was more interested in getting back together with my mom (bow chicka wow wow..) than he was in being a part of my life. So finally when I was 17 I told him in or out, none of this back-and-forth business. I wrote him a letter and said I can't keep getting hurt every time he's 'out' so if he can't say in my life, then he just needs to stay out of it.

A little sadly, he has decided to stay out of it. Luckily, though, it's helped me to move on with my life. Yes I know who my father is, but more importantly, I know who my DAD is. It just turns out they're not the same person.

[Hidden Depths|0 likes] [|reply]

dont forget that there are two sides to every story too. His version of events might surprise you

[Meghans FollieStar|0 likes] [|reply]

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