strike.
The fucked up truth about a "Cheating" situation is its usually the girl who initiates the affair. That being said, A guy will take anything laying infront of him. You really can't blame a guy for taking what is given, unless he knows she has a boyfriend/fiance/and or husband. Then thats when you can blame him.
The same could be said for males too. A male who cheats is taking what is tempting him and the female is now kinda in the guys seat. Just the roles have been reversed.
It was just a random thought. A friend of mine, Ray is cheating on his fiance with his exwife. And I kinda thought about what I said up above. And its the truth. The only way it couldn't be the girls fault for her cheating is if she was drugged or raped. The guys situation gets a little complicated, its either they cheat or they don't.
And to think after all the times it happened to me, I was blaming mostly the guy rather than the cheater themselves... I hope it doesn't come back to bite Ray in the ass though.. That could get nasty.. His fiance is skit-so and her other personallity is a cat. I'd really hate to be Ray in that position. He might become a cats play thing..
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