Awhile back I was talking to a friend of mine who mentioned that for most online first contacts with women(From dating sites) you have that one message to woo her other wise thats it for your chances. I think it's odd because how can you really get to know someone in just one contact. I want to know someone before I start anything with them even friendships because they can go as bad just as quickly as in relationships. I know that movies have made it seem like the instant spark romances are the best but all of my instant spark relationships seem to have crashed and burned just as quickly.
I imagine that titanic might have been different if jack had lived. People talk about what a love story it was but honestly it was two horny kids in a doomed boat. Love survives chalanges, and hardships. Sudden spark romances can go out when the wind blows to hard. |