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Lady B's Diary
by Lady B

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define official.. [advice welcome]

09/12/2009

pretty smiles && make up quote
define official..


last night, i was with my "man-friend". that's what i now call him bc whenever he comes into my work everyones sayin he's my man or my boyfriend. we're not official so he's my man-friend... so we ended up going bowling, and i went up to bowl and i had left my purse open and when i came back he was all leaning the other way and was reading something. it was this lil book that was his but i'd had it before but i'd given it back to him. and i thought he'd gotten it outta my purse and i snatched it outta his hands thinkin it was my poem book. he looked at me crazy and then i was like ohh my bad... i thought it was somethin you'd gotten outta my purse. and he asked me what i had to hide? [the question i should be asking him] i told him nothing and when we were leaving the bowling alley to go get cynthia he asked me why i had tried to snatch it away from him. i told him i thought it was my poem book and then he was all cool bout it. but we went to wally world and bought scarface and fast and the furious 3 and 4.

when we got home i was struggling to open the dvd because of the plastic and he tried to take it to open it for me and i said "NOOO LET ME OPEN---" and in the middle of the sentence he grabbed me and started kissing me.. then he picked me up and carried me to the bedroom...
it was great

i wanted to talk to him about the whole situation with us. but after that we were just all cuddled up and what not last night. we were just happy and i didn't want to ruin that.. ya know? i keep putting it off to talk to him because honestly i'm scared of the outcome. advice would be great on this one.. ?




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From past experiences it is a good idea to sit down and actually figure out where both of you are and the boundaries of your relationship.

Otherwise something can happen and because you weren't clear on where each one stand it will cause possible heartache.

It is going to seem hard at first to discuss this sort of thing because of the potential that he doesn't want what you do but the possiblities of what could happen thanks to the confusion could be a lot more painful.

However I would suggesting waiting for the right moment and not doing it in the middle of cuddling, try slowly getting him in the topic of relationships.

[NurikoStar|0 likes] [|reply]

seems official to me, but it's always good to discuss these things.

[imaginary ordinary|0 likes] [|reply]

I would talk to him about the situation. I would tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels?

[xo heatherStar|0 likes] [|reply]

yea, the only problem is that's terrifying.. i don't want to make it worse than it already is. he's so confusing right now! i don't want all ties to be cut then bc he thinks i want the relationship, which i do. but i don't know! it's complicated. like; i don't want to be rejected, i don't want it to be weird after that if i do say something to that nature. it feels like i'm at a 4 way stop, there's no going back and the rest are dead ends.

[Lady B|0 likes] [|reply]

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