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by Odd

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Morons a plenty

04/01/2010

So there is a pretty heated debate going on in the "bullying" forum thread. Little ms. Redfraggle and Mindi have raised the flag of ignorance and I feel the need to point out a few things.

One take your sanctimonious head out of your bleeding heart ass. Life is tough, kids have to be tougher.

Next go back and actually read what I said. Put it all together for the overall thesis. What I said for the more challenged members of Bloop is that Kids need to be taught HOW and WHEN to fight.

I also said that the parents need to toughen their kids up. We have a generation of kids coming up that can't take name calling or pranks. We as a society got all touchy feely and PC. By doing so we have nurtured a crop of weak children which will turn into weak adults which then weakens or society as a whole.

Now I am not saying that everybody out there needs to be filled with bravado and machismo. What is needed is people to grow a set of balls and learn to step up rather than bitch out.

All this coddling has done is breed a bunch of passive aggressive deviants. Who instead of settling things "Mano-a-Mano" on the playground (like we did as kids) they would much rather take to the internet and hide behind the safety of a computer screen and blog in order to taunt and ridicule.

If you ask any generation before Y, they'll tell you that we have raised sissies. That the 80's brought forth a newer idea in how children should be taught and raised and that it was one of the biggest mistakes that could have  been made. The first time we let parents be sued for disciplining their brood was the beginning of the end.

Before you start screaming about abuse and all that jazz. Let me say this, I was a child that was a abused and molested. I have lived with that my whole life and I for one no the difference between abuse and discipline. So please keep you whiny crybaby assed opinion on it to yourself. Kthx

My son gets spanked. Very rarely these days, but for awhile there he got his butt whooped for every major infraction. After a while....low and behold! He stopped doing the things he was getting spanked for. Now I could have tried sitting him down at 4 explaining the rules in GREAT DETAIL, go through every in and out of the law of the land, but do you think he would have gotten it? I can tell you that no he did not, he stared at me blankly the few times that I tried and promptly went back to what he got in trouble for.

When we as a society how we raised our kids, very soon after that we started to see the effects. Some....the pansy wanna hug everybody people cheered and hooted that children were no longer in danger. Well all you did is put everyone else in danger.

So call me names. Slander my name. Write me hate mail. You'll only be proving my point. Now go cry me a river you two and get the hell over yourselves.


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And you ARE Tommy, right?

(Although I hate to say it but I'll be disappointed if you are. Tommy is such an idiot, and everyone is already so aware of it, that he is no challenge when it comes to forum debating)

[~RedFraggle~Star|0 likes] [|reply]

ryc: I'm glad you're not Tommy. If you were then I'd be bored of this already.

"How much can you really know about yourself if you have never been in a fight?"

That's a ridiculous statement! Plenty of people (myself included) know themselves (and are confident in themselves) PERFECTLY well, without needing to have been in a fight. How on EARTH does HITTING someone help me discover anything about myself? The real question is why do YOU believe that you need to hit someone so as to know who you are? If you want a definition of someone who is insecure, I'd say that's it! I know that I don't need to resort to something which requires such little intelligence, so as to know myself better.

Sometimes in life you just can't avoid a beating.

Ridiculous statement number two. The vast majority of people who have been involved in physical fights (note, not the same as a mugging or assault) could have avoided it by choosing the smarter option. To give in to someone's taunts or threats and respond by hitting them shows that person to be nothing more than weak. If you were really confident in yourself, you would not feel the need to retaliate. Self defence when someone is being physically violent towards you is different of course.

I have gotten my ass kicked. I probably deserved it too.

Well, if you regularly demonstrate the levels of intelligence and ignorance you have shown here, I'm hardly surprised.

I have held my own and actually prevented a far worse beating trying to defend a friend or two. (Guys beating up on women anger me) Was I wrong?

How many friggin times?!? I've said it over and over, defending yourself, or a friend or family member, is NOT the same as fighting or 'knocking someone's teeth out' to prove a point or to prove your worth as a man, or as some sort of route to self discovery!

I used to work in psych, so I've taken self defence, and I would use it to protect myself, if I had to. I would NOT CHOOSE to get into a fight or physically harm another person for any reason other than self defence. And I certainly do NOT need to get into a fight to understood who I am. What an incredibly stupid and ignorant thing to say. But hey, it shows what a low view you have of yourself that you think YOU need to be violent to know YOURself.

[~RedFraggle~Star|0 likes] [|reply]

And reply here, and let everyone share in the joyful ignorance!

[~RedFraggle~Star|0 likes] [|reply]

Haha, I am not even going to dignify this by debating more with you. I know that you have no idea what the hell you are talking about and thats okay. You can call me ignorant, but I am not, I have been through bullying, I have been through more than most people can live through, There is no way I would want to condition a child to be able to survive what I went through, to do that would be asking for that child to turn off all feelings.



♥Mindi

[○MindiStar|0 likes] [|reply]

i know it's not facebook but... *like*

[Ice Vampire|0 likes] [|reply]

With everything, you have to have balance. You need to teach your kids to stand up for themselves and not to bully and be compassionate. I do not have children but I do believe you need a balance. I think spanking is needed at times and talking works too. I'm all about the balance. lol.

I agree, that our society is too PC and touchy. It gets to be quite ridiculous sometimes. We do need some tough kids in the world.

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