I see your true colours, and that's why I love you.

06/27/2011

Buzz Buzz

Well well well...it's been a while since I wrote a real entry...so I figured I'd come on here now, while I'm in the mood to actually write, and talk about what's been going on in my ever entertaining life the last week or so.

Where to start?

Trystan's birthday was on the 17th. He is now 4 years old! I can't believe how big he's gotten. He's no longer a little baby!

LoL. So hard to believe 4 years have gone by...now he's a big boy, starting school in September and becoming more and more independant every day.
Anyway, this is how Trystan's birthday went down. Took him to see Doug for that weekend. We had a small party at Doug's on the 18th, and then of course the 19th was Father's Day. Let me tell you how NOT impressed I was with Doug that weekend.

To start off, on Trystan's actual birthay, Doug was out doing stuff that I don't even agree with, trying to make money to get Trystan a birthday gift and stuff. Whatever. He then came back from being downtown, in a bad mood, and decided to stay in that mood for the remainder of the day. Once he was home, he went to his room and went to bed. I was livid.

The next day, we had our little party for Trystan. It actually turned out to be a really good day. Trystan had a ton of fun, and so did everyone else that was there.

Sunday, was Father's Day. That day wasn't the greatest either. You'd think on a day like that, people would be in high spirits of some kind. Apparently I was wrong in thinking that.

The following day, we went home.

The week itself has been pretty slow. Took Trystan on Tuesday to get caught up on his immunizations. He got one set of his shots, and he will be getting the other set tomorrow. My poor baby...he HATES needles. Flips out just at the sight of them.

Anyway, spent a good portion of Saturday night decorating for Trystan's birthday party here at home. We did a Diego theme. And I have to say, it turned out pretty good! I also drew a Diego birthday sign for the party. It's not 100% accurate, but it's good enough that some of my friends asked me if I actually had drawn it or if I had traced it. I drew it on bristol board. There was no way I was gonna trace a picture onto it. Not to mention the picture I copied it from was very small and on the back of one of Trystan's DVD's. LoL.

The party itself was fun. Not many kids were there. To be honest, there was only one other kid aside from Trystan that came. It wasn't as big of a turnout as last year, but it was good enough. He got lots of stuff too. Of course, I was more excited about the clothes he got than the toys. LoL. He needed summer outfits so bad. Very happy people bought him some. So yea...he did pretty good this year. He's happy, and so am I.

In other news...

The last couple of weeks, I've been hanging out with my friend Joe quite a bit. He's staying up the street from me, so we meet up almost every day to chill. I feel like since we've been hanging out so much, we've become a little closer than we were before. I mean, we've always been good friends. I've only known him for a year, but he's just one of those people, you know? I've liked him for quite some time, but he is insistant that he doesn't EVER want another relationship. And he's been this way for 5 years already. Abstinence and all. Which I'm totally okay with. But I like him SO much! LoL. He's funny, kind, a great conversationalist, extremely intelligent...pretty much everything in a guy I've been looking for. And yet, he's untouchable. It's rather frustrating. And of course, I'm okay with us being friends because I'd rather have him as a friend than nothing at all. He knows I like him...but he doesn't let on because I'm not supposed to know he knows (long story...lol). And yea...

OH...and this just in... Doug has a new girlfriend. In all honesty, I don't give a shit that he's dating another girl. It's his life. BUT...this girl, lives in St. Catherines. We live in Scarborough. It's quite a distance away...so anyway, they met online, and are now dating. I'd say she's maybe 20-21 tops. Doug and I got into an argument a few days ago because I told him that I didn't want him introducing Trystan to anyone I didn't know, unless I was there. Well, he took that as me saying that I don't trust him.

Uhmmm...it's not that I don't trust you....I DON'T KNOW THE GIRL. And frankly, he barely knows her himself. Who's to say she's not some crazy ass chick who has it out for the world? Exaggeration I know, but still. Naturally, these things are going to go through my head. Anyway, first it was that I was jealous. Which is beyond funny as fuck because there is really NOTHING to be jealous of. I don't mean to be judgemental, but I personally think I'm much better looking than she is. LoL. Oh, that and the fact that I KNOW Doug...this is a long distance relationship for the time being (even though she's in Scarborough for 2 weeks staying with him at his parents place, and is moving to Toronto soon enough in order to actually BE with him). And as long as this remains a long distance relationship, Doug will continue to search and scope out any other girl who is willing to slut herself out and sleep with him for a night. Because Doug never goes into a relationship without some kind of back up. With his last relationship, in the beginning, he was dating 3 different girls at one time. Yea...that's right. THREE. Sick right?

That's the beauty of Doug. He's so self centered and full of his own ego that he is considered to be quite the pig. He doesn't see it that way and doesn't understand why people refer to him as that. Which again, makes me laugh. Cuz it's RIGHT THERE.

Took Trystan to the zoo with Joe yesterday...we had SO much fun. Trystan even got to go on a pony ride. Which I think is wicked cool. LoL. I wish I could ride on a pony. But I'd crush it. Haha...and on a side note, when I decided to go to the zoo, I invited Doug and his girlfriend to come...but I told him I wasn't going to pay for them. So he said he wasn't coming. Then I invited his brother and his brother's girlfriend. I offered to pay for them because at least I know they'd pay me back. Doug never would because he's a broke ass who doesn't even support his kid. Well, Doug caught wind of this, and got all pissed off and mad that I wouldn't pay for him and his girlfriend to go, but I'd pay for his brother to go. Dumbass. I'm not paying for your girlfriend to go to the zoo when again, I DON'T KNOW HER. Ugh. The guy is seriously a moron.

Anywho...I think that's all for this update. Have a nice day!

Ciao!