What happen to trusting people in relationships and Bad holidays in genreal

12/14/2012

this holiday season has been a pure pain in my ass with my girlfriend on me bout getting her son a laptop for the holidays and i been using my own money and she never chipped in one red cent into the laptop and that makes me upset and now i have to figure out how to produce a laptop soon or else my ass is beyond grass and she add things to the holiday list by demanding me to buy her a gold necklace and earings cause she went through my personal belongings and my cell phone and went off on me bout who can and can't send me txt messages to my phone and now my breaking point has been reached with her yes i love her but now thats starting to go away cause of how she acts and treats me and i offically wonder if im ment to be with her but she won't take no for an answer on a lot of things when i say money is tight she goes off about it and she keeps txting me every few mintues asking me where im at and what im doing i feel like im being controled cause when we go out i have no say with the radio and witch way i get to our destation and it drives me nuts that im in a realtionship where i feel like i can't really do nothing but be the throphy boyfriend and her sugar daddy to her and her i want i want i want demeanding child witch is 12 yrs old i want some advice on how to handle this whole bad situation

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Eek... that sounds terrible. I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone who is that controlling. Obviously I don't know enough about it and wouldn't dream of telling you what to do, but here's what I would do. If I really loved her, I would try to have a conversation about how there must be emotional things going on under the surface that's making her behave this way. If she's not willing to address it and work on it, given a few days to think about it (because you know someone like that is going to blow up in your face about being confronted about it at first), then I would leave her. No one deserves to feel like a slave in a relationship and it sounds to me like your efforts aren't being appreciated. Also I would make sure that nothing I'm doing is causing her to act that way. I can say from experience that I've been too clingy in a relationship because I was worried when I didn't need to be, and that caused problems between us and I didn't even realize at the time that it was my fault. I hope that helps. Good luck!

[Shadowscapes|0 likes] [|reply]

End it. Now. She obviously doesn't listen, or compromise and is apparently also insecure and potentially jealous. Not a good combination.

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