Father Daughter Traditions...

09/23/2010

Oh what to do

Since one of my favorites brought this up, its been on my mind, and really I do not know what I will be doing about this. My dad and I have been on very very shaky ground to be honest. We never really worked out the past problems, and I hold a lot of resentment towards him. I don't know what to do to be honest.

On one hand I would love for him to walk me down the aisle, it is a tradition I have always dreamed about, although he wasn't the man I envisioned giving me away. On the other hand I dont know if someone I hold so much resentment towards should be giving me away. I am his only daughter though...

As far as the father daughter dance...I have a lot of hesitation with this as well. My dad cannot dance at all, and neither can I. I am worried we will look like two bimbos out there trying to dance. Blah. I hate that him and I have such a shitty relationship.

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Well, you do have 3 years to patch up the relationship. I'm also no longer close with my dad and hold a lot of resentment towards him but I'm hoping that by the time my wedding rolls around that I'll have let that go.

♥ Karissa

[The Only Blitch.|0 likes] [|reply]

Maybe someone else can give you away?
I think my dad may actually be a better dancer than me lol. I don't know how it's traditionally done but I want my dad to pick the song, I want to be surprised about what song he feels describes our relationship.
My relationship with my dad is a lot better, though I have problems telling him I don't harbor the resentment I used to have, so I think he still feels very guilty about the past and like I might still be angry. Hopefully I will work on that between now and April when I will see him face-to-face and plan on telling him about not having him walk me!

[Katerina Yvette|0 likes] [|reply]

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