Seriously- apparently OD isn't updatng some people's bookmarks. Mine happens to be one of them. And of course I go searching this god-forsaken website for a freakin' update from the OD "staff" and nothing is even acknowledged. I am so sick of paying for something that isn't even working properly! SO WAKE THE FUCK UP OPENDIARY! FIX YOUR BULLSHIT!
To the ones that can see this:
So, I put a new pic up on Facebook as my profile pic. It is a pic of me, Daniel, David and Tyler standing on a rock at the ocean. Well, Daniel's sister Afton (living on the reservation in Washington, remember?) commented on the pic (she is on Daniel's FB, not mine I tagged him) saying she missed him and their "shrubway" nite. Which was when she was too lazy to cook, she would drive him to subway so he could buy it for her. Anyways, I see the comment and tell him to get ahold of her cause somethings up. I just know.
So, last night he texts her. She asks about our baby, Daniel asks about hers. She took a long time to answer and she just replied with, "I miss Shrubway nite with my bro".
Well, they take FOREVER to text back and forth. The whole time I am on a tangeant about how she needs to freakin' educate herself about being pregnant with a Native American baby who is a member of a reservation, because they live under different laws than we do. That they will NOT let her leave with that baby! And then I start Googling it... I didn't find shit. The whole time Daniel is telling me to calm myself because his aunt lives on a res too and will tell her everything she needs to know.
Well, I then ask him, "How is her baby?" He just shakes his head no. The kids were in the room. So I mouth to him, "She miscarried?" He nods.
This makes me sad, of course. I guess she is okay because she isn't stuck there now. She also had a daughter a few years ago that passed of SIDS. So I can imagine this to be devastating to her. If I hadn't seen her paperwork, I would call her a liar though... because that's all she does.
But still though. I find this weird. She was four months along! That is an odd time to miscarry! So I am asking him if there was a medical problem with her etc. And of COURSE he doesn't ever get details from her, and she never gives them!
I hate to say this, but in a way I am also relieved. She isn't a good mother. She passes her 10 year old the marijuana pipe mindlessly (she doesn't want him to smoke it, but I think its appalling she does it in front of him). Her oldest calls her by her first name and was raised by her parents. She's also nuts. And if she had a daughter and had a daughter two months later, she would create all kinds of competition. If she had a girl and I had a boy, her child would be favored over mine, just as if I had a girl and she had a boy. I don't like competition and jealousy over babies. It takes the joy out of it. But, also with her not being pregnant, there is a better chance she will be moving back. Great.
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