Oy! I think he had better talk to his wife about that one. She's the one who signed up to have his babies and perpetuate his name. You just want a baby to share with your love, which is NOT HIM.
I think that you need to be really careful with this if that is how he is acting.. If he gets wild hair up his butt one day and decides to demand a DNA test and visitation there isnt ANYTHING you can do about it unless he signs adoption papers when the baby is first born. I hope things work out and he stops thinking like that, or talks to his wife about trying to have more kids or something.
WOWZ! ... 1st, thx for an update I was missin ya!! 2nd HOLY COW baby daddy drama and baby isn't even here yet and DADDY isn't even HIM! WOW!! Soo sorry you're going thru this girl I agree on the point that if and when ya'll get preggo that if the kid asks who's daddy to let 'em know. But as far as SPREM DONER being in the picture as DADDY... FUUUCCCCKKKKKK NOOOO.That's Sperm Doner. NOT Daddy. Mel is Daddy and you are Mommy. point blank period. If dude's not cool with that then sorry momma, u need to find a new sperm doner. (Where u located? lol sure Dan won't mind sharing lol)ugh I'm so sorry ur dealin with all this mama, luv you and hope this get betterrrr!! <3