same old and something off topic

08/09/2010

So today, when the kids came back home they told us that their mom is having triplet boys. I find that interesting that people that are teens or really young get pregnant with multiples and/or when they have so many kids as is. The ones that cannot have children do get pregnant and if on the off chance, they do only have one. I saw on a news site that 80% of multiples are born to girls under the age of 25 and 10 % are born to those over 40. It just makes no sense to me that that happens. I see so many teens pregnant and it is very disturbing to me.

Anyway, on another note, I have this question and wonder about a friend of mine. My friend has a husband and a couple of kids she seems to be happy and content. However, she is always talking about this girl that use to be her girlfriend. My friend is still so in love with her. However, when her girlfriend found out she was pregnant she had been sleeping with two guys and did not know who the babies’ dad was. Therefore, she picked between the two and decided to stay with the one that wanted to be with her and take care of the baby. She went to that guy and left my friend and the other guy even though she was still in love with my friend. She wanted a father for the baby and it devastated my friend. It has been four years now and she still is in love with that girl and wants to be with her. My friend wonders why she will not just say something to the guy she is with and leave. The guy she is with he is really possessive and controlling. She’s not aloud to go anywhere alone and especially with women. It is so upsetting to my friend. She has tried to see her and talk to her for quite some time. She finally got to talk to her and it was I still love you and would love to be with you but he wont let me see you and I feel so bad for her. Therefore, here is the question:
How does she see her? In addition, how can she stop loving her so much and get on with her life?