trying to tell myself that but what i really wanna do is send her somewhere far away... she being my lovely 7 year old (8 in 6 days!) niece ciara shes been at this kids house all day i dont like her playing with older children this girl is 11 but since ive known her mother for many years (worked with her in 2005) and my mother still works with her i let it go but tonight she comes back home and decides to tell me i will not tell her what to do and she wasnt going to take a bath and "good luck with that" *blinks* excuse me? she goes for the phone to call her mother (she knows that makes me so mad) to ask her if she had to take a bath but i grabbed the phone before she dialed. and i picked her up by one arm and put her in the bath with her clothes on she kept telling me i couldnt get her in the tub so i proved her wrong yea sometimes i act like a child but i get my point across then when she was getting out to remove her wet clothes (i had to hold the laughter) she called me stupid OMG! i couldn't hold back i hit her butt not hard just enough for her to freeze i don't believe in hitting kids but at that time i was at my breaking point needless to say she got in the tub quickly then i was looking in the mirror (at my self) and she told me to leave or she wasnt washing yea i knew if i left she wasnt going to wash anyways i told her that wasnt happening i wasnt leaving till soap was on the sponge she told me it would be a few hours then so i sat down i told her there would be no playing with that girl for a while her response "your not my mother i will play with who i want" *eye roll* she quickly washed and got out.
This is the worse age ever i could never deal with 7-10 not even when i was that age. i just dont know what to do with her! |